Is it normal that my gf and i both wear dresses ? ( lesbians )

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I love my gf. :) we've been together for 2 years. The only problem comes when we are out. I'm awkwardly questioned... "Who's the boy"? we usually respond with humor . When asked we both raise our hand and say "I am" . We both came out to our friends and family a year ago and ever since we've been grilled with these "risky" questions. Im not sure what the problem is really, we're both girls and we both wear dresses ...why is it so odd ? Even with some of my gay friends . Any thoughts?

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago | pl

    I had no idea that there was a rule of dress for gay people. It's perfectly fine that you both wear dresses. Just like it would be perfectly fine if you both wore pants.

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    • kelili
      10 years ago

      Exactly what I wanted to say.

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  • gummy_jr
    10 years ago | pl

    How is it not normal? Wear whatever the hell you want :)

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Last time I checked there's no official dress code for lesbians.

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  • skyrimisforthenords
    10 years ago

    "Asking who's the man and the woman in the relationship is like asking which chopstick is the fork." - Ellen

    Tell them that next time you get stupid questions. :)

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    10 years ago

    What the fuck is the question here? What is the big fucking deal? I don't fucking get it.

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  • ryan4399
    10 years ago

    Perfectly normal. I think girls who don't like to wear dresses are weird.

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  • kaegrl23
    10 years ago

    ok thats normal your both girls, where whatever you want! who cares what people think!

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    Well generally relationships will have the more leading figure and more gentle one. This goes for straight and gay couples. Generally people will think of the boy as the tomboy/butch in these type of relationship. Also no I am not saying butch is tomboy is the same thing. However you and your girlfriend sound like you both are very feminine. So these roles are not so obvious to the public. Though that being said your question is as absurd as asking "Is it normal I am a female that likes pink?" Since pink has always been defined as something women like. So liking dresses is something that is considered normal for most women. Another way to put this is the man pays for everything and the female cooks and cleans. Being lesbian does not mean that one of you has to be super boyish or anything. A lot of people also believe partnerships should be equal. I think this is a great example of that.

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  • megadriver
    10 years ago

    It is normal. You are both girls :D

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  • dirtybirdy
    10 years ago

    Scrumptious.

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  • Hamid37USA
    10 years ago

    Thank you for your offer of sex. My name Hamid. I will like a plane ticket to come to USA for no work and sex fun.

    Friend=Hamid
    your welcome

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      lololololol Allah Akbar mother fucker!

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    Sure can they be like really sexy dresses so lads swoon over you then get crushed when they find out you are lesbians.

    Thats always funny.

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    • Loveandliveadream
      10 years ago

      Was that sarcasm? Lol either way , I think your missing the point. :) its not funny, We just like wearing dresses.... I guess it's a girl thing.

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      • RomeoDeMontague
        10 years ago

        You should not feel obligated to dress down since you are lesbians. It is your choice to wear what you enjoy wearing. Anyone who is upset since they think you looked too pretty and lead them on are jerk-offs. So just ignore that type of behaviour. Besides its not like you cant want to look pretty for your partner or other women.

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      • Terence_the_viking
        10 years ago

        I don't think there is anything wrong with it.

        Sorry allow me to explain. In the past i have seen guys trip over themselves only to get shot down because the girls were lesbians and those dresses they wore oof.

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  • GuessWho
    10 years ago

    You're worried about the wrong aspect of the story.

    2 girls both wearing dresses is the ONLY normal part of that story.

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    • Loveandliveadream
      10 years ago

      Ok, thank you?

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