Is it normal that my g/f has talked to her family about my penis?

I've been dating this girl from college, we've talked about marriage. She told me that her brothers, dad, etc are all circumcised. As she stated "All proper gentlemen should have this done before marriage." We attend a certain university in New Haven. Apparently they are all convinced that all respectable men do this.
I'm freakin out!
They talk about it in front of me! Is this insanity???

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Based on 362 votes (59 yes)
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  • (s)aint

    Dude,no! DO NOT MUTILATE YOURSELF FOR THEIR BELIEFS. Dammit

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  • NormalIsAsNormalDoes

    She wants the D... cut? Bro, this sounds scary as hell! Don't do it man. A family that cares that much about something like this probably has some other weird issues... Don't want that

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  • Couman

    just say no to genital mutilation. Or alternatively insist she gets a body mod / cosmetic surgery of your choice as well. It's only fair.

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    • almorr

      No way should you do anything to your penis and she should not TALK to anyone about your penis. I was annoyed when my girlfriend told her friends how large a penis I had when she first saw it

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  • VirgilManly

    You're going to have to do it yourself and in front of her entire family to prove yourself worthy. It's just the way things are done in polite society. Also, try not to ruin their carpet.

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  • Ilovewinter12

    I think it's a bit odd and selfish that she thinks that all men shouldn't have foreskin.
    I don't even see what the big deal about foreskin is,
    I heard that cut men get less pleasure than men with foreskin.

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    • ilioaikane

      and just how would you determine that bit of information from... I'm sure that all the cut men here would disagree with you.. that they have no end of sensations and none of the cleanliness issues we all here you have... if you're uncut...

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      • Ilovewinter12

        I got my info from a website about the benefits of having foreskin. http://www.doctorsopposingcircumcision.org/info/benefit3.html

        I wasn't trying to say that cut men were worst or anything, I was just speaking my mind.

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    The fact that they're all freaking out over you penis is just ridiculous. The best way to end their freaking out is to break up with her because they clearly have no idea what a respectable man is.

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    • Beanman

      I'm seriously reconsidering the whole relationship with her FAMILY.
      She has been taught this from her mother, my girl is not mean or demanding at all.
      The whole family are very "proper" English/British that emigrated to the USA just after the Civil War.
      They vacation in the "proper" places in London.
      @Cuntsiclestick: You seem cool about all of this foreskin stuff.
      Why are you so accepting when most US girls really dislike uncuts.
      BTW: I am very hygienic, shower usually 2 times a day.

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      • Cuntsiclestick

        Most of the girls I know (myself included) don't care if there's foreskin. I never actually thought women hated uncuts. As long as its kept clean, why would the girls think its an issue?

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  • Lonely2

    Asked her to get a clitorectomy as well

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    • ilioaikane

      now that is just stupid....

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  • Nope. Don't do it. Dump her. She has no respect for your privacy or your body. Tell her that a "lady" doesn't expect a man to mutilate himself in order to be a "gentlemen".

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  • thr

    It does seem weird that your gentleman bits are to be a subject of discussion in the house of her family.

    Their talking openly about your private area is not necessarily insane, as far as I can judge, but quite weird. The expectation that you be circumcised is out of line.

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  • handsignals

    Her and her family want you to cut a bit of your dick off?

    Buy them a crate of lube and tell them to go fuck themselves.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Are they Jewish? If she's Jewish you'll most likely have to get circumcised before ya'll get married.

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  • Nyves

    No. You have every right to your body and if your girlfriend doesn't like it well too bad she doesn't have to deal with it if she doesn't want to.

    If you're getting married, she should love everything about your body. Also, that's really personal shit she's telling her parents/siblings...

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  • Kitty_kat101

    Not at all I would break up if my boyfriend talked to his family bout my pussy

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  • lovingstepdad

    I was circumcised around when I was 40, due to tightening of the fore skin around the head. This was due to a medical condition, before hand, could have great erections. After surgery, to let it heal, erections were out of the question, whilst healing. However since the op, maintaining an erection has become a pile of shiet! Don't loose your skin, its your best friend!

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  • Anonnet

    I was circumcised and... I really don't care. I don't support circumcision, I just don't support all the people calling it "mutilation".

    That said, if she's adamant about you doing it, just leave her. She obviously does not respect you.

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  • whoknewthat

    Just tell her that you'll get cut if she gets a boob job.

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  • la_uva_mojada

    tell her only under the condition if she lets her do her in the butt whenever you want

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  • EccentricWeird

    Think of it this way. If you go through with it you can chase people around with your foreskin. Now that's good trollin'.

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  • biaj

    I dont think any girl should talk to her family about her bf's dick. neither shud a guy go to his family and talk about a girls pussy... thats completely weird and unneccesary...

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  • green_boogers

    They sound like victims of religious brainwashing. Find a family that is not so retarded.

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  • Camerican

    I don't think this is TOO bad. It's not like she's talking to them about how big it is or what you do with it. As long as it was just "he's not circumcised and I want him to be" then it could be worse.

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  • coachhoops

    Leave this bitch. There is nothing wrong with having an un-cut penis! I am un-cut and there it works very well, just the same as a cut penis. I just have more sensitivity on my cock.

    MT

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  • RazzSoH

    Wow, I thought circumcision was only done to babies. Don't mutilate yourself for some girl. Do what you want to do, you want to find someone that does not judge a man by his penis, there are alot of females out there. if you want to go through with it, it is painful, but not as painful as it sounds.

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  • tobiashardy

    Hygiene has absolutely nothing to do with whether you are 'natural' or 'circumcised'.

    I'm natural, and shower twice daily. I'm exceptionally hygienic.

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  • Mat4Mat

    I voted normal just because you call the whole thing insanity; and trust me insanity is a lot worst. I am an "uncut" man and when erected my foreskin disappear because I'm a "grower". Meaning my penis stretches beyond what the size of it when erected!. I really never thought about it but I've been told many times,.....how do you get it to be that size!"....I learn how to say,..."I just water it!".....
    If I didn't have my foreskin my erections will be painful or to say the least, not pleasant. Jewish or not (and think Madoff) no one should judge you for your foreskin as we don't judge Barbra Streisand for her nose!.... There I said it!

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  • FireHeart

    I would not mind someone uncut. If they agreed to never have sex. Lol.

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  • Avant-Garde

    That's not normal as far as I am concerned. Are they by any chance Jewish? As someone has already stated, if you were to marry a jewish girl, not only would you have to convert to Judaism but you would also have to be circumcised in front of everybody… In general, I yet to meet a Jewish person who made a big fucking deal about knowing a gentile who wasn't circumcised. They aren't even supposed to push their religion on other by acting like prophets.

    If they are Jews, there behavior is pretty fucking weird. I would stop dating her, if I were you. It's weird how that whole family knows about everyone else's penial situation. She shouldn't be telling them about the state of your schlong, unless, she thought their was something abnormal about it and needed confirmation. Then again, this is usually what the internet and friends are for. A circumcised penis doesn't necessarily make for a fine gentleman.

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  • smsk03

    That's weird.

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  • tripw7

    This is ridiculous to even suggest that you get circumcised. If you were a couple days old and didn't know why you were hurting, then that is different. Tell her NO WAY. If she says that is the only way she would continue to see you, then good reddens to someone that is way off base when it comes to what to expect other people to do.
    If she likes you now, then tell her that you might change your mind about her if you got circumcised at your age.

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  • TwoThumbs

    Next.

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  • Energy

    *barfs at the thought of uncircumcised penis* I can see why they're worried.... But that doesn't mean someone else won't be cool with your space alien looking thing. Everyone has a preference. If you don't want it cut, find someone else.

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    • (s)aint

      Space alien looking thing? That is how a penis looks naturally! In Sweden NO ONE does this, unless they are either religious or they have too tight foreskin and NEEDS to cut it ...

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      • Avant-Garde

        Sweden sounds like it has its shit together.

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      • Energy

        Everyone can have a preference. I think it looks disgusting. I'm bisexual and I wouldn't want to sleep with someone like that. Nothing wrong with that. Some have a fetish for it. It's not like everyone thinks it's disgusting. I've met girls and boys who love it, and I've met those who don't.

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        • (s)aint

          And that is just because you have been raised to think that a normal penis looks weird :s to me this is as silly as saying that vaginas with long labia looks repulsive and that all vaginas should look like those in pornographic movies.

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          • Energy

            I haven't been raised like that. I was born in Ukraine. Where it's normal to be uncut. I, myself, just have a weird phobia for it... I tried to appreciate uncut cock, I really did!

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            • (s)aint

              Ooh, well ... then I'm out of arguments xD

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      • moomus

        Nor in England

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