Is it normal that my friends throw me shade for this?

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For the last few weeks I noticed that my friends look at me weird everytime I tell them that I'm feeling myself or that I think that I'm attractive. I've started to feel kind of guilty because everytime i wear something tigher or more revealing (keep in mind that i have a curvy hourglass type of body and other people tend to call me out more often for cleavage or short shorts which i should have complete freedom to wear) they always get really shady out of nowhere.
I love my friends and they're really nice people, maybe I'm just too comfortable with myself (?).

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  • singulier
    7 years ago

    It's very odd. They should be glad that you think nicely of yourself.

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  • nopeity_derp
    7 years ago

    if you want to make your friends accept you, shouldnt you accept that they dont like what you are wearing and that everyone is open to their own opinions?

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  • JessicaRed
    7 years ago

    Maybe you are too comfortable with yourself! But you should be comfortable with yourself! You certainly have the right to wear whatever you want! I support you in this. In addition maybe your friends are jealous of your attractiveness and your confidence. Maybe you should talk to them and tell them that you feel like you are yourself when you wear something sexy, and ask them what is wrong with it? Ask them if they feel uncomfortable for some reason. If you realize that they are jealous of you they are not so good friends, except if they change your attitude towards you. Do not beg them, it is their choise and they have to take it fast.

    Wear whatever you want, but always respect yourself and remember that it is not your fault if someone is jealous of you or if someone gives you unwanted attention! Be prepared to tell people off!

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    • toilet_goals12
      7 years ago

      You're right, I'll talk to them as soon ad I can. Thank you!!

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