Is it normal that my friends are all guys?

So i'm a girl and people keep calling me a slut because their idea of a slut is having guy friends? Like they are actually just friends i don't fuck them all or flirt and the only thing we feel for eachother is friendship nothing more. But i hate how everyone just assumes i'm a slut or bi because i have no girl friends. I honestly don't want girl friends because i don't like all this drama or emotional break down that they have and the school i go to all the girls are superficial,creepy or just not the type of people i would be comfrtable being with.And really the guys don't gossip all day about clothes or cute girls (well they do but now when i'm around lol) or all those girly stuff and i like it this way.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    I'm like that too. It's always been hard for me to make friends with other females. I dunno. Girls always had too much drama and emotional problems; very hard to get along with, but guys were always fun and layed back.

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  • Unimportant

    Guy friends?!?!

    Slut.

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  • Koda

    Some guys even have all girl friends. Some people are just more comfortable around the opposite sex friend-wise, it doesn't mean they're attracted to the same sex. You might think some guys are hot and have crushes on them, but not ALL guys. I have tons of friends who are girls that I'm not attracted to. That idea that girls and guys can't be "just" friends is a myth. Besides a true friend is a stronger love that love based on lust, it's based on better virtues.

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  • Purinsu

    Its typical to think that girls all have emotional drama and such more think like that

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  • keeping_up_with_da_kids

    I think those guys want to get close to you for a reason!

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  • theaverageatheist

    all of my friends are guys,(ok, one is gay) two or three are very close like brothers to me, and we all hang out together as a groop and I don't flirt with them or anything. they all say that they are happy to have a girl friend to ask advice about girls they like.
    I don't like having girl friends because all they talk about is clothes or gossip about other people (I hate hate saying bad things about people I know).
    I have only one girl friend who is my best friend but she dosen't like girls either for the same reasons, so we get along well (she is part of the groop)

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  • drumandpickchick

    I don't have any friends that are girls. I used to in high school, but they started to bug me. They're really loud when they get into social groups or in public because they love attention. It seems like they're always trying to impress others. Plus they're so mean to each other and full of drama. I'm into snowmobiling, motorcycling, hunting, sports...tom boy stuff and none of them knew/knows how to do it and I don't want to teach them just to hang out. I've introduced all my guy friends to my husband and he's better firends with them now than I ever was! I just don't get other girls. I've told my husband a few times "I'm glad I'm the woman because I'd never marry one."
    There are a few girls that are in the network of friends that are pretty damn cool though. I just like hanging out with the guys (and girls) that are care free talking about stuff I actually like. When one of our good firends comes over with his wife I want to crawl under a rock. She wants to talk about cats and dogs and her nieces and nephews, cleaning...all that stereotypical girl shit. My female co-workers always want to hang out and get lunch and go shopping. Fuhhh! I've done it a few times and all it was was hours of (HER) talking about some other girl, periods and drama. I finally had to tell her more important stuff to worry about then what 'So and so' is doing. The day ended awkwardly...for her...and I went home. I wasn't interested in talking about other people and bitches at the salon. Anyway.

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  • Who calls you a slut, other males or the other females?

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  • BathoryBeauty

    I think it is perfectly fine to have more male friends than female. I just can't find the energy to pretend I care about who was wearing what, who is backstabbing who, the latest fashion or makeup trends. I would rather be pulling on a wrench the putting on mascara. This may also be that I grew up in a family that, out of the 7 of us in my generation, 5 were males. Don't get me wrong I will dress up for special occasions. I own high heels and makeup (although very minimal), I just can't justify spending 1-2 hours every morning doing my hair and putting on makeup to go to work or grocery shopping.
    I think NeuroNeptunian has covered it adequately and agree with her.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    Normal.

    Personally, I have been in that position and I feel that some of those girls might envy the fact that you can freely talk to men and that men will confide in you their thoughts and friendships, while they are probably scratching their heads as to how to figure men out, how to talk to them and how to get them to confide in her.

    These are the same girls that stand in the lines at the supermarkets reading every magazine that has a header that leads them to believe that the contents will help them "figure men out". And while they are puzzled, trying to figure out how to tell a good man from a bad man and how to win a man's heart and friendship, you're doing that about as easily as you breathe.

    The fact of the matter is that there are many girls out there that are nervous when it comes to talking to men and that would love to be able to freely communicate with them and when they see someone who can, they think "God, she must be sleeping with him" because they were taught that the only way to win a man's fancy is with your vagina. This is probably why they end up with dicks, because all they know to offer is pussy.

    Very normal, and it's all good. Men are great to hang around with. Women require a level of social prowess that I don't care to have to exhibit constantly. I don't give half a damn about purses or Gucci or my cousin's baby, I don't dig tanning and designer clothes. I have a female friend or two, but I tend to stick with people that don't expect me to be the model female. Men like women that they can have fun and be themselves with, not women that expect them to live up to hollywood stereotypes. Just so happens that there are women like us out there, and for this, we are sluts.

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  • TerryVie

    Hm. Social dynamics can be rather complicated.

    That one sentence there..."Like they are actually just friends i don't fuck them all or flirt and the only thing we feel for eachother is friendship nothing more."

    In such a setup and with no girls to defend you because they know better, it's actually enough if you slept with 2 to 3 guys to take a fall, societywise.
    Also, they weren't your partners, but rather just friends. Yay double standards.

    Still, different friends for different people. There's many reasons why you would feel more comfortable around guys then around girls, starting from certain hobbies to what family you grew up in or what experiences you made in your early life. I'd say it's pretty damn normal, because friend groups are dynamic constellations, and just as there are "all male/all female" groups and mixed groups, it's just as normal to have only one or two members of the opposite sex in a friend group.

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