Is it normal that my friend talks crap bout my other friend

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Last night my friend told me that one of my friends has been talking bout her and calling her names!!! He said a lot of inappropriate things and lies bout her!!! I dont know what to do bout this!!! I don't know if I should be friends with both or ditch the one who has been talking crap!! My friend is like a sister to me and I don't know why anyone would want to talk bout her in a mean way!! I've known them both for years and I'm not sure who to keep a relationship with!!! Please help Mee!!!!!!!

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  • Redsfan192
    11 years ago

    This is definitely normal. This happens with me all the time with all of my friends.

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  • sammij7
    12 years ago

    Hi

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Yeah it's normal. I have a really nice kinda weird friend and my other good friend keeps saying she doesn't like her to me when she knows we're close friends. I just tell her to shut up, no one gives a crap and I don't wanna here it. You can still be friends with them just defend the person getting made fun of.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Just invite them both to your house and talk to them about it.This eaxact same thing happened with my friends.You have to have them confront eachother and make them play together.The'll learn to work together and to be nice to eachother.If this doesnt work just tell them eather they stop it or you wont be their frined anymore but say kinda nice not to scare them

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  • sammij7
    13 years ago

    Thanks u guys!! It turn out my friend didn't even talk shit it was someone else but thanks for ur help anyways!!! :) <3

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    Tell them to grow up and handle their own shit.

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  • LiveLaughLove73
    13 years ago

    Ur the third wheel make them talk to each other and understand each other.. If one is mad at the other for a reason make them talk toeach other about it and discuss what they could change about themselves

    Hope I helped :) kinda confusing though

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    i would not get involved in he said she said, dont take sides. it will sort itself out, if one talks about the other change the subject or mayb e change friends

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  • pamsue824
    13 years ago

    Sounds like both of your friends are talking crap? I would talk to the other friend and ask her if she is saying these things. Be careful who you trust in situations like this as who really knows if people are lying? Good luck!

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  • Sotchi
    13 years ago

    There's plenty of people who talk shit about others out there. Makes them feel better about themselves. If he's talking about her, he could be doing that to you. I would re-evaluate your friendship with him.

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