Is it normal that my friend is always ignoring my phone calls?

My friend is always ignoring my calls and messaging. And not only mine. He ignores other friends as well.

One time I asked him a question in whatsapp. I saw that he was still online and near message there was a double V symbol. And yet he ignored it.

And there was another incident. I called him to ask him what is he doing. He picked up the phone and answered "Hanging up". I didnt hear from him whole day.

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  • Avant-Garde

    He might be like me and have a phobia of talking on the phone. He may be even more so like me and have a phobia of texting, which is what I had in the past. Even now, though, I still experience anxiety. Or, he may have tight finances and worries about jacking up his phone bill. You should ask him why he does this.

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  • Dad

    Always?

    Either you call too often, or he seriously just doesn't want to talk to you.
    STOP calling your 'friend' before (s)he really says something that will hurt you (its ironic that our 'friends' can hurt us more than anyone else could).

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  • RomeoDeMontague

    Maybe he just doesn't want to be your friend. That or they are like me and before use to get messages every other minute so spent all day on phone yet after people stopped caring about me I stopped caring and now I don't hardly answer at all. In fact most of the time my phones dead since I forgot to plug it in again and I just don't care anymore. If its on facebook they might be multi tasking. That or just take awhile to answer back. I have a ton of friends who stopped messaging me.

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    • RoseIsabella

      You sound a little like me. I've become a bit of an isolationist in the past year in real life. I had a falling out with three stupid witches last year and ever since then I've been rather standoffish with other humans especially other females.

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  • TwoThumbs

    Your friend is hilariously awesome. Look. I was a teenager before everyone had cellphones. They started becoming common towards the middle of college for me. The idea that people know you have your cell phone on you at all times...you're attached to "apps" at all time and you're always "connected" at all times is an additional stressor to us. Your friend choosing not to feel obligated to keep contstantly in contact is probably wise for his own benefit. Leave the guy a message...and he'll call you back if he's not busy.

    "When I was a kid" it was acceptable to call back as late as the next day...because you had to be at your house to first hear the message on your answering machine and then have time to call back which you couldn't do on the go. Cell phones have almost forced a false importance on phonecalls. Kudos to you friend. Think of this as him helping you be less needy.

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  • PureLikeSnow

    At least you're not the only one that feels ignored. I've been in a similar position, and the best I can say is cut communications (remove/block his number, but not out of passive-aggressive behavior) and move on with your life. I don't know exactly what's wrong with your friend, but he's got quite a number of issues to resolve.

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  • Holzman_67

    maybe he is reversing the trend of social media sites and creating anti-social media sites

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    • RoseIsabella

      Hey you're back! Welcome back Holtzman. :-)

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      • Holzman_67

        Yeah I had to come back I missed you too much Rosie :)

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        • RoseIsabella

          Cuteness.

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  • SHAKEStheClown

    There's a lot more to this story than you're letting on.

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  • candybee

    Are you and your friends jerks to him? Maybe this is his way of returning order to the universe without being confrontational.

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