Is it normal that my friend didn't text me?

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So me and my best friend live in different cities a few hours apart, because of the distance and school work we haven't seen each other in three months.
Tonight I saw a facebook post that she was in my city at a bar with some new friends that she had worked with over the summer and I was very upset. I did not want to go out to the bar with her new friends, but is it normal that she didn't text me to meet up for coffee or shopping, or just to let me know that she was here?
Also the last time I had talked to her was a week ago when she invited me to see her "sometime" is this not a good opportunity for that "sometime" to happen?

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  • yesnomaybeso
    11 years ago

    I agree it is not normal and, unless she's so so forgetful, I'd get angry.

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  • BonerMagnet
    11 years ago

    Maybe she just needed to be with them for awhile, and wanted to have a separate time and place to hang out with you.
    Don't worry about it.

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  • Antir0b0t
    11 years ago

    Maybe your friend knew you wouldn't enjoy being with her friends so she waited until she'll be there on her own? Assuming is the number one way to screw with people's emotions. If you just assume without asking you could feel pretty darn silly for getting worked up about it.

    And if she just blew you off then so what? find some friends who will treat you the way you want, or open up to this friend you want to maintain a friendship with.

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  • (s)aint
    11 years ago

    I´d say that you do have the righ to be slightly upset. If you guys are as close as i personally view best friends to be she could at least have asked you if you wished to meet her for a little while since you don´t wish to meet her other friends (Also perfectly sane opinion,not all of us are overly social people) Also hard to tell since i have no clue about your relationship, what kinds of people you are etc. But yeah, i´d be upset as well.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    Yes it's normal.

    She has a right to spend time with other friends without checking in with you.

    Plus... you stated you didn't want to spend time with her at the bar with her other friends. Perhaps it's time to consider that it goes both ways... If you're not going to go out of your way to spend time with her at her chosen place with others, you can't really expect her to go out of her way for you...

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    She has the right to hang out with other people. You should grow up. You should love and stay detached. Her life has changed. She has met other people and she wants to hang out with them. Maybe tomorrow she'll call you so please don't make a fuss about something which personally I think is not even a real problem

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    She's probably dead that is why she didn't text you.

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