Is it normal that my friend did this?

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I have this friend who I used to hang out with but kind of lost track of. Recently we got to chatting again on facebook over one of her postings where she needed help with something.

I mentioned that there was this concert next weekend and I was thinking about going but I didn't have anyone to go with. She said she was interested too, but had something else going on that day so she wasn't sure if she could go yet. I asked her to tell me if she decided to go so we could plan to go together. She agreed.

The next weekend rolled around and I didn't hear from her so I assumed she couldn't go and I made other plans. Low and behold a few days later I saw on her facebook page that she did go and went with another group of friends.

That really hurt me. Why did she decide to go but not tell me? I haven't spoken to her since and I'm not really sure if I should try to reach out to her again. Why should I even bother?

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  • curiouskate101
    10 years ago

    She's a bad friend

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  • ifonlyuknew247
    10 years ago

    Ask her what happened, that you thought you had agreed to go together. See what she says and how she acts.

    Also, I can't tell if OP is a guy or a girl. If you are a guy, maybe she's not that into you. Actually, same thing if you're a girl.

    If she has a wishy-washy problem (which you should be able to find out when you confront her), just don't even worry about her. Take her off of your friends list and put her on an acquaintances list. Then next time she wants something from you, tell her you only have time for real friends, or at least respectful, mature people.

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  • randomthoughts
    10 years ago

    Some friends suck and sadly are like this, I have come across many- try not to take it to heart. If I were you I would ask her straight up and it's easier done through txt.

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  • AtomicCollider
    10 years ago

    Actually that is normal (at least where I come from) but she's just not a good friend. Period.

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  • TwoThumbs
    10 years ago

    Do not waste your time.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    How immature. Give her the cold bottom and distance/ignore her.

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  • kelili
    10 years ago

    It's not as if she had killed your parents. Relax

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    • StrawberryTurtle
      10 years ago

      for real.He should get other friends.

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    • shuggy-chan
      10 years ago

      That's what I'm saying, people have lives and troubles and my have honestly let it slip her mind. I mean it not like Facebook conversations are binding, don't take it personal, try asking her how was it for her, and maybe say something like I was hoping to see u, what about...... and make other plans

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        10 years ago

        Well I should have been more clear. After we were talking on facebook I texted her and that's when I asked about the concert. I don't think it's possible for her to forget about this within a few days.

        Thinking back there were a couple of other times where she did something similar too. She mentioned that she was having a birthday party and asked if I wanted to come. I said sure but then she never followed though to actually invite me. I didn't know her as well back then so I didn't really think much of it.

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        • shuggy-chan
          10 years ago

          Well some people are just flakes man, just treat her as the distant friend that she obviously. Some people like being friendly without actually being a good friend

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  • Karmasbitch
    10 years ago

    I'm sorry. People don't think. I have people getting mad at me at work for "making me think" (That's what they tell me)
    My point is, she was too absorbed in her own life to consider others, such as yourself. She didn't think about you, or about anyone else. She did what was convenient for herself, from what it sounds like. Really though, don't take it personal. I would just focus on yourself and be happy with you. =] Good luck!

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  • Creativeusername29
    10 years ago

    What an asshole!!! U should tell her she's an ass and never speak
    To her again !

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  • tripw7
    10 years ago

    If you think that she went on purpose without you....tell her on facebook that you were sorry you didn't see her there.
    (That should get her curious enough to make a comment one way or another.)
    If not, forget it. She obviously has her own agenda.

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    She sxc

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  • Shroot
    10 years ago

    Prank her

    Shit in her shoes or something

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