Is it normal that my fiancee gets horney while i'm crying.

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Well, as far as I can remember, my now fiancee gets hard when I'm crying and he's comforting me. He says he doesn't know why, he just does. He's completely sincere and reliable but then after I'm not crying anymore and my problem is mostly taken care of, he brings it to my attention. He says he thinks it's because he gets to comfort me but I still want to get some insight on it.

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  • NoraBaker
    11 years ago

    Hi. This is very intriguing to me and I wish somebody else would have given you some insight. All I can do is recount my experience with something similar, but which I never fully understood. That's why I hoped for some answers. It used to happen in one of the very intense relationships I had. There was a dispute for dominance in the dynamics between us. We were always fighting and more often than not I'd end up crying. Whenever I was out of control in that crying he would get hard and just come up to me and take me with SUCH passion that I never used to see. It wasn't like angry sex or make up sex, it was better. I'm aroused just thinking of it.

    I assume it was the feeling of being overpowered and letting go of the dispute that made it so pleasurable for me. As if accepting this undeniable truth about men and women... I really don't know. I'm still really curious about this, especially the male perspective.

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    • lostlenore
      11 years ago

      I wish there were too.

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      • NoraBaker
        11 years ago

        More answers? Is that what you mean?

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        • lostlenore
          11 years ago

          Yeah. I mean. There's responses to the stupidest questions. Lol

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          • NoraBaker
            11 years ago

            Haha true. ;)
            I'm curious to know what you think, if you'd like to share. Otherwise, I understand.

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