Is it normal that my fiance wants to have a business of escort?

i remember last year my man asked me oh baby how would u feel if i would of open a escort business and i told him HELL NOooooooo this year he asked me that he wants to be a CEO of a escort company and i told hiM HELL NOOOOOO i dont want him dealing with hoes and he told me his not going to deal with them he will be the CEO and I HATE THIS WE GOT IN A FIGHT THREE TIMES OVER THIS AND I TOLD HIM I WANT TO HAVE A CLEAN RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM I DONT WANNA WORRY ABOUT THOSE ESCRORT JOB OF HIS , we got in a fight over this and i told him if he wants to do that business he should go fucken be single and i wont marry him and he tells me that ( BABE YOU DONT UNDERSTAND BUSINESS WE CAN MAKE HELLA MONEY WITH THIS COMPANY) AND I told him i dont want thissssssss and i told him i will leave him if he ever think about it and we got in a nother big fight with him i dont know what to do,, i dont like those type of jobs i trust him i just dont want my future husband having a business like this ,, and i told him any other girls wouldnt except that not me not anyone else ,, any adivce ?

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Comments ( 25 )
  • Missy85

    Is this a real issue, if it is. You need to serious up your standards and leave this guy, he sounds like a scumbag.

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  • AngAnders112

    they're not hoes, they're escorts. if you guys can't come to terms, then it's best to part ways now... instead of getting married and potentially divorced later.

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    • la_uva_mojada

      If they fuck for money, they're hoes! Why sugarcoat it?? It's the same shit!

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  • Mando

    Stop dating a wanna-be pimp.

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  • la_uva_mojada

    There r a million other kinds of businesses he could open. Why does he want this one?? So he can lead the life of Hugh heffner? U don't need this shit..

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  • Dillanfire

    I wouldn't trust the bloke, with money and women around him do you think he will worry about his girl at home ?

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  • It doesn't necessarily have to be a matter of trust, but a question of character.

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  • cathy22

    isn't this somethin' like a "pimp"-??

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    • Tehboss

      nonononono no no!
      a PIMP can slap his hoes has a CEO of an escort company he can't do that so it's TOTALLY diferent situation

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  • emilydoll

    The last thing you want to be is jealous, this guy sounds like a chump esp because you told him no and he keeps bringing it up, you deserve better

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  • joybird

    I think this comes down to your own personal morals and not being able to enjoy what you consider 'dirty money' - and you are to be admired for it. Finding out that your man is up for getting rich at other people's expense reflects badly on him. You are rightly afraid that with the escort business will lead to sex, gambling, drugs, and any other reasons to make money.

    I'm with you girl! I went out with a guy like this many years ago but dumped him when he tried to get me to marry him by telling me about his trust fund! Slapped him and told him where to stick his trust fund, I'm no prostitute! Anyway, he turned into a gambler and a womaniser, so we'd have been divorced by now!

    Keep life simple and earn your money in a respectable way, so you can hold your head up as you enjoy it!

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    • Lynxikat

      Dude, you always know the right things to say- you should have you own help column in a newspaper or something :)

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  • howaminotmyself

    Tell him you want to be the CEO.

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  • ThisIsNotAUsername

    'HELLA MONEY' < This made me happy inside.

    I agree with you, i wouldn't like my boyfriend dealing with escorts. I do trust him, but its the scene in which he could fall into from this. It would be as much of my personal dislike towards the business as to his safety. Yet, if it was something he really wanted to give his hand at, i couldn't say no, I just haven't got the heart for that...

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  • hellostrangers

    Judging by how you write, your education is LOW, who knows, it might be your best bet.

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  • shade_ilmaendu

    If you trusted him, it wouldn't matter. Either he's done something or hinted at something, OR you just need to calm down and realize that being in a relationship with someone doesn't mean you tell them how to live their life. If he's given you reason to distrust him that's one thing. If not, what's the harm? It's a modern age, theres nothing wrong with escort services and I feel it's a bit rude that you referred to them as "hoes". If the potential objectification of the women is what concerns you it's rather hypocritical to use such derogatory language. :/ there's no need to be rude, it's just another profession and plenty of escorts love their jobs (and their paychecks :p)

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  • king80

    he need to drop your ass, you suppose encourage your man

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  • goldeneyes

    He is looking for a harem and free sex. That's all. And he is trying to pull the wool over your eyes. Next, he will be asking to borrow money from you to start up his "business".

    I think you know him well enough to know if he is full of it or on the level. And I think you know he is full of it. He most likely has been full of it before. Can you remember any other times he has come up with harebrained schemes that did not work?

    I would not remain in relationship with a man who thinks like he does anyway. If it is not this doomed scheme that won't work, it will be another one later on. You won't ever sleep easy with a game player like this. Get out before he breaks your heart so badly that it cannot heal.

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  • Katywompus

    Would he like it if you said that you wanted to be the main escort lady?

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  • MissClaire

    You obviously very afraid of the obvious possibility. Why dont you trust him? Has he been disloyal in the past?
    You shouldnt be this paranoid, if its a moral thing, then you guys have very different moral beliefs and perhaps should discuss that...... or.......you know

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    • Tehboss

      why you give serious good advice you evil woman?

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      • MissClaire

        lol...... thank you... I think?
        Why am I so evil?

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        • Tehboss

          because you give proper advice and that by definition is teh ebil.

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          • MissClaire

            oh, thanks good to know...

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  • BurnaTwist

    sounds like you dont trust him therefor you shouldnt be with him, now if he finds a girl who doesnt care and makes a business that makes good profit and he treats his new girl really well then thats your loss trust is everything in a relationship since you dont have that you shouldnt have a relationship

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