Is it normal that my fiance wants to dp me?

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My fiance and I recently started trying different things in the bedroom. We've started a lot of things to do with our butts like, anal sex, he likes to "toss my salad", and when I give him head he likes for me to stick my finger in his butt. I don't mind any of those things, but now he wants to buy a sex toy so that he can have sex with me while using the toy to pleasure me anally. Why does he want to do that, and is it normal?

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Based on 48 votes (44 yes)
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  • Tinento
    12 years ago

    Thanks for the help everyone :)

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  • pala
    12 years ago

    Perhaps he's asked to do this because he wants to know what it'd be like to do this. Sometimes a cigar really is just a cigar.

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  • TerryVie
    12 years ago

    hum. not a problem and pretty normal? nervous is fine, but it's a "logical" next step for him, after having etablished "anal sex" as standard. Let him know you are a bit nervous but willing to try, if he's anything of a standard guy that'll turn him on even more than if you just go ahead and keep silent about it.
    (oh, and you should try ;) but of course it's up to you )

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  • Ramit10
    12 years ago

    Yeah you are ok with everything else but not that. He is just stepping it up. All you have to do is ask your bf why he wants to

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    • Tinento
      12 years ago

      It's not that I don't want to, it just makes me nervous. I've never done it before.

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      • Ramit10
        12 years ago

        Thats all you have to say. Its pretty normal after all your guy is trying to please you the best he can.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Why wouldn't it be normal? He wants to give you double pleasure.

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