Is it normal that my father took the exchange students virginity?

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The other day I used my fathers computer, and found a folder just laying on the desktop. My heart started beating hard even before I realized what it was. Inside there were some pictures of the exchange student in the bathroom. She's sitting on the toilet seat and smiling insecurely at the camera, wearing just a blouse and nothing underneath it. You could almost smell the sex from the whole setting.

She's from a scandinavian country and blindingly beautiful. I've more or less been in love with her since I first met her, as almost any other guy at school. She's even told me she's a virgin a couple of months back. I didn't even think it possible, but he's obviously slept with her when they were alone in the house.

I'm pretty sure my mother knows nothing about it, and I don't want to cause a divorce. But it's going to be hard to pretend as nothing, knowing what has transpired. How should I look at this.

The exchange program should know so she could switch her host family 3
They were consenting adults. Such things happen 3
My mother should know that her husband cheated on her 5
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  • Alestar
    10 years ago

    Ok, so I talked to her now. The exchange student, that is. We were watching a movie together, and I brought up the pictures. At first she told me that they were just messing around. I asked her why she was naked, and after some silence she admitted to the whole thing. They had sex. And after that confession she came with all the details.

    When they were alone in the house, he had made her dinner, flirted with her, and gotten her quite drunk. He convinced her out of her pants and made her bend over the dinner table. From there he ate her ass. It was more or less the most emberrasing thing she had experienced in her life, and she went through it by hiding her face in her hands. Eventually he took her from behind. It was terribly painful for her. He went slow at first, then faster until he came I guess. She told me she was sorry she hurt my mother, but she hadn't been able to just say no.

    After the pictures in the bathroom, they had tried again. He wanted her to be on top, but she had been unable to do much. So he was the active part all along. All traces were removed, they opened the windows for fresh air, and the next morning he bought her a contraceptive pill. I might just have a blonde haired sibling on the way otherwise.. Before the pill, he used the opportunity to have one last go at it. They agreed it was just a one time thing, and to keep it secret.

    I feel really sorry for her, and it doesn't seem like she has much guilt in all of this. The tought of her having sex that way ... my father is a pig. Not only did she have to lose her virginity just because he wanted some ass. He told her that taking a girls virginity was kind of the ultimate achievement, and that he liked doggy style the best. So he got it all from her, and even took pictures of it. In fact, he stretched her so bad that she was bow legged several days afterwards. My mother is another victim, who was cheated on, and in a way myself, since I had/have feelings for her, and am at her age. I don't want her to be sent home or to suffer more repercussions because of this, I sure as hell don't want to destoy my mother and fathers marriage, but I also don't want to just let him get away with this.

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    • purpletrain
      10 years ago

      Really difficult situation but it sounds like you've handled it very maturely. Any update? Have you told your mum? Sorry to say since he is your father but wow, what a douchebag. Correct me if I'm wrong but to me it sounds like he initially got her drunk because she wouldn't have had sex with him otherwise then took naked pictures of her to use as bait (or just wank material) in future. That's messed up. You should lose your virginity because you trust that person, not because they manipulated you into it. I dunno, if I were you I think I would encourage her to tell the organisation (perhaps not what happened exactly, maybe just that she's receiving advances from your father. Although I don't know how this will affect your future applications for student exchanges) so she can get a new host family. You can still see her, be her friend and look out for her whenever she's around. I'd also get your father's laptop and delete the naked pictures. Save a copy if you want to tell your mum because you'll need proof but make sure he no longer has a copy of them. As for telling your mum, you know the dynamics of your family so ultimately only you could make that decision. I'm just sorry you were dragged into this mess.

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  • Geneva5
    10 years ago

    She is fucking everyone in the whole school as far as I heard.

    Did you find your dildo the toilet ?

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  • starie
    10 years ago

    I would confront your father but that's just me. Ignoring it is always easier i guess...

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