Is it normal that my family is so lovable but..

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..I never look forward to introducing my friends/boyfriends to them? It's not like I think the people I'd be introducing my family to aren't good enough or viseversa, but I just hate it. I'm the total odd ball in my family. They're all fun, loud, and so social. I'm the total opposite. I just always feel like if I introduce them to eachother then they'll realize I don;t belong with either of them. I don't if that makes sense, but what I mean is like what if my friend/boyfriend thought I didn't belong in this family or if my family thought my friends/boyfriend was way out of my league? I seriously hate introducing people to my family because I'm afraid of everyone seeing what I see when it comes to me and my family.. Is this normal?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    If they're a true friend/boyfriend, then they would accept you regardless of how your family appears. I mean you sound like you're also a fun and social person, just not in the same way as your family. I really don't think anybody would see you any different, if anything it'll show your friend/boyfriend that you trust them.

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  • kamilion
    12 years ago

    that's normal. i think most people hate introducing family and sig others. you have your own neurosis about it, but that's ok. maybe one day you'll feel better about it.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    perhaps you should consider being with someone who knows you completely

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