Is it normal that my family is like this?

My mom and grandmother walk around the house in their loose underwear and fart all the time, even when they're eating; and they don't think anything of it or think it is gross. It gets SO annoying, Sometimes when I'm using the toilet, my mom/grandmother will ask to come in and do whatever. I tell them to wait but they just demand to open the door. The grossest thing they'll do is when I'm using the toilet, and one of them wants to use it, they'll just open the door and pee in the bath right infront of me (while im on the toilet). I've seen their butts a million times, they don't close the bathroom door when they use the toilet, so I have to close it because I cant stand it. I cant take it anymore, I'm such a neat and clean freak and I dont like this stuff. Also, my grandmother sleeps in my room (when she visits here, which is alot) so I sleep in the same room as my mom. and when I go to my room for something, shes on my bed, COMPLETELY NAKED. when I say something about it or make a fuss, they complain. Ugh it is just SO STRESSING and i cant take it anymore! Is this normal??!

p.s. sorry for the long story, I got frustrated and started typing alot...

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Comments ( 18 )
  • ms_funion

    ^ love it! good ol' Billie

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  • Maybe they used to be hippies and lived in one of those communes.

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  • They sound borderline evil. Demanding entry into a bathroom in use is a cardinal sin and an affront to your manhood.

    They've crossed the line.

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    • I'm a female.

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  • suppose19

    Wow, that is some serious violation of personal space. They are obviously not respecting you, and it is totally normal to not like it. They are the abnormal ones, not you. Man, I could NOT stand that.

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  • Move out asafp. Mama may have and Grandma may have,but, God Bless the child that has his own.

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  • HSVWHO

    NOT FUCKING NORMAL! that is nasty!
    I'd burn my bed after she is done with it! Yuk man.

    as a solution. PROTEST. don't speak to them or don't eat or don't come home or don't do something they expect u to do until they do what u expect them to do!

    Pee in the bath tub!?! Wtf!

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  • thehalfgoodgirl

    my remember my older cousin would always do that and sometimes I would see her naked butt when she pulled her pants and panties at that age my butt would stink and I wonder if hers did to so I asked her and she said sometimes and one day I remember onetime I smelled it and it smelled like sweaty ass a little bit like square yellow cheese and she laughed at me and she was peeing and she farted on the toilet and I heard a plop she let out a poop and she said “my butthole stinks no” we laughed

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  • rle122660

    I'm no germ freak, by any means...but normal?...I'D SAY NOT!!!

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  • FloridaCalm

    NOT NORMAL. Sounds like its time to do a family meeting and get locks and get those "babys" theyre own rooms. Take a sttand. Make it clear. Reward them for theyre accomplishment, teach them a thing or two about privacy and take the hits.

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  • devilonyourshoulder1

    Dude, how old are you? I've heard of strange family situations, but you have it weirder than "Charlie and the Chocolate Factory." Move out whenever you can, and next time you use the bathroom, stand your ground and tell them to piss off whenever they try to enter at the same time. Don't let your grandmother use your room, period. You need to stick up for what you feel is right, or in your case, sanitary.

    PS: It's called locks. Buy some.

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  • bubber

    You need to move out FAST before gram grams starts bringing people home and leaving the door open..

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  • imacomputer

    yes it's normal cuz it happens a lot.....but no it's not right at all. I hope you're planning on getting your own place soon......and NOT inviting them over.

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  • BirdyMojo

    NO THIS IS NOT NORMAL WHATSOEVER!!!!!!!!! :S

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  • lwchen

    is the story TRUE?

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  • helenjewett

    Here are your options:
    1. you could mention how bothered you are to your mom and have her try to figure out something to make home a bit more bearable.
    2. talk to your grandma and ask her why she sleeps naked. ask how she was when she was a kid at home.
    3. don't say anything because it's grams and she's old.

    and i'm guessing you only have one bathroom?
    if you have two, it's time to have the 2nd one as your own bathroom.

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  • Ldizzy1234

    That's not normal at all!! It's good that you're not following in their footsteps. Don't.

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  • MadMar

    I would find that rather disturbing too. Of they want to act like that it's fine. But at least respect your views on it and let you use the bathroom privately.

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