Is it normal that my ex's mom wants to break me down?

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I'm convinced that my boyfriend's mom hates me and wants to replace me with my boyfriend's ex girlfriend.

My boyfriend's ex girlfriend talks to my boyfriend's mom daily about everything like, "remember this and that" "hahahaha" keep in mind that this was a teenage fling relationship that they had for 3 years.

My boyfriend's mom is nice to my face, but when my boyfriend decided to message his ex and tell her to please stop talking to his mom, the ex girlfriend then told my boyfriend's mom and my boyfriend's mom wrote over Facebook on the ex girlfriend's wall (the world can read) she wrote:" You are a really good friend of mine and I will remain talking to you despite anyone's feelings. So lets go shopping soon:)"

I feel as if this was extremely immature and a slap to not only my face, but her son's face(my boyfriend). I'm 18..the mom is 43.

Is it normal that my ex boyfriend's mom seems to be nice to my face, but then almost talking shit about me behind my back, trying to push me out of her life ? (it has been almost 2 years since my boyfriend and his ex broke up and me and my boyfriend have been dating a year)

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    You really must ignore this woman!! The very worst thing you can do is moan at your bf about his mom. This will divide his loyalties and you will come across as a right bitch.

    1. Do not ever mention his mom again.
    2. Do not ever mention his ex again.
    3. Ask him not to bring up their names either.
    4. Be happy together.

    It doesn't matter if his mom and the ex enter a lesbian relationship, your bf has no interest in his ex or he would be with her.

    My mother-in-law used to try and make me jealous, but I wouldn't fall for it. Eventually, she had to give up.

    Never, ever, let her find your weakness or you will be tortured forever. As you are young, she knows that you are likely to be jealous - show her you are more mature than that!

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  • koolkeepn
    11 years ago

    Close the book... The past is exactly that... The PAST... Stop dragging it

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    I didn't exactly see how the mom was talking shit. My brother's ex girlfriend is still a good friend of mine. My brother has since married someone else but my mom and I are still friends with his ex. It really doesn't have anything to do with you. I'd say the same thing to my bro's ex if his wife said something. It's an entirely different relationship that doesn't have to do with you. I don't think his mom is the immature one.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    ignore both of them what do you care if they go shopping and are best friends?

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  • thislilrican
    12 years ago

    look i think i get what your saying but kind confused. But going by what you said she said on facebook i dont think thats talking shyt about you. So what she likes that onther girl. who cares that doesnt mean she hates you. she just has a good relationship wil that girl. DOnt take it personal. That lady is intitled to what ever relationship she wants to have just like you intitled to any relationshi you want to have so just let it be. Parents will do what they want so you do the same. You stress over this to much. Just do right by your relationship and thats it. Dont let her statement effect how you are towards his mom and just be yourself. Not everybody will like you and i dont think she hates you so dont stress over this. its nothing. the end

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  • pandabear1209
    12 years ago

    Uh you keep saying your boyfriend then you say your ex boyfriend... which is it?

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    • CaseyRoyce
      12 years ago

      My bad, yea at the end I meant to say boyfriend NOT ex boyfriend.

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  • kellstar79
    12 years ago

    You said your ex's mum in the title then said he is your boyfriend... I'm confused

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