Is it normal that my ex reallllly hates me?

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Okay, so it's been a year since I dumped by ex boyfriend. He's really nasty to me. I apologized for dumping him in a note, but he wouldn't talk to me so I really had no choice.
It's been a year now and he claims he's like some rapper, though he's just some white boy that never got the memo he wasn't born black (he tries really hard sadly :(...) anyways, he gave this rap to my now boyfriend saying how he could get me back anytime he wanted and how "he'll stick his wood in me"...and he told him I become a bitch after a month and such...I've been really nice to this boy. I treat him like i would treat everybody else...like holding open the doors, etc. is it normal that he holds such anger towards me?

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    Some people need to grow up. Some people never will!

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    In a way... yes. It can be normal.

    You dumped him in a note and you expect him to be your friend just because you apologized. It doesn't always work that way.

    Even here you mock him about his music, and then go on about how you go out of your way to be nice to him.

    Maybe you should try just leaving him alone. Give him no more attention or communication than you would give to a complete stranger. Don't even try a "silent treatment" to try to get him to talk to you.... just ignore him.

    I mean who cares if he claims he can get you back? I mean I can claim I can fly by flapping my arms... doesn't make it real.

    But right now he knows it will spin you and your new BF up. So he will continue doing it, getting back at you both for hurting him... until he sees that it doesn't affect you.

    It might make him act out more at first, mind you. but keep strong in ignoring him and he'll get tired of it and will finally stop

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  • Alison89
    12 years ago

    Some people just never mature. I'm glad I haven't had to deal with a guy like that, especially the part about the things he said to your current boyfriend.

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  • Aleks85
    11 years ago

    Oh you poor little victim you. And I hate to break it to you but rap aint off limits to "white boys."

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