Is it normal that my ex keeps calling me?

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Okay guys help me with this one. My ex girlfriend dumped me several years ago just before high school graduation for another dude. I'ld admit i was not the most popular guy or one of te fanciest boys in high school but i really loved her and it took me till almost my junior year in college (when i met my current girlfriend) till i got over her.
I loved her so much i cried overnight when she shot me the email (ya i was dumped via email) and she didnt pic up my calls or return my email. she blocked me back then on myspace and blocked my number.

However, she added me on facebook last week. She then got my new number, called and i've learned how badly things turned out for her. while i graduated college and am now working, she got dropped out of college in her sophomore year after getting pregnant by the guy she left me for. she keeps sending me pictures of hwr daughter and keeps saying how much she misses me.
My current gf must not find out about this! I'm scared as i really love my current one butstill have some feelings for my ex as she's always been my first love and true love.
Is this normal? anyone got some advice for me?

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  • youmightberight
    12 years ago

    Don't answer her, she hopes you still love her so she has a father for her child. Forget about her, she's obviously not worth it.

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    • LOL:)
      11 years ago

      she is totally not worth it. she probably just wants to use you as a dad for her kid

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Your ex is just feeling sorry for herself that it didn't work out as she planned. Now she sees you with a good life, and that you've moved on, she wants to get you back for some stability in her life. In that selfish process, she would be wrecking your life. She would then move on after a while, when you'd built up her confidence again.

    Tell her you have a gf, it's been nice to reconnect but you're not interested. Block her if necessary.

    Don't fall for this old trick!!

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    Tell your current girlfriend. You've done nothing wrong but if she finds out independently, it may look like you've done something wrong because you were hiding it. As for your ex, either don't reply to messages or reply without feeling so she knows what the score is, gives up, and moves onto someone else.

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    • STFU23
      12 years ago

      yup I agree. you need to tell her before she finds out on her own! trust me!! when I find out something on my own without my bf telling me I get fucking pissed. why does he have to be such an ass??? lol

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  • LOL:)
    11 years ago

    Be careful around this girl. Any girl who has te odasity to dump anyone via webmail is a total a-hole cause they can't bring it to your face. Sides, sounds like all she wants is someone for her daughter, and that she wants you to feel bad for her. Don't go for it is all I got to advise.

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  • Funkbabe
    12 years ago

    Be careful,i think she is gonna use you and discard you agan...when and if she comes across somebody else...And tell your Girlfriend about it,and tell her you are not interested and falling for your ex's inuendos.

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  • blueyes-texas
    12 years ago

    Thanks for the comments everyone. I think I'll just start ignoring her calls from now. Feel really bad for her though.

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  • chatter289
    12 years ago

    I think you SHOULD tell you current gf. You should never keep secrets in a relationship, small lies lead to big ones, and once you make one lie, you will make MORE lies just to cover that one little lie up. Its a vicious cycle!

    Its very inappropriate for ur ex to do this and so unfair. As a female, it kinda upsets me to think that our current bf's may still love their ex's no matter how many years have gone by.

    Tell ur gf what's happened and sure as hell tell your ex that you no longer wish for her to remain in contact, she is the past, leave her there. You bringing her into the present may cause problems in ur relationship in the future.

    Good luck xx

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