Is it normal that my ex boyfriend's wife stalks me?

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She makes fake profiles on Facebook and Meetme and will add on them, mostly Meetme. She made one on Facebook and added me and harassed me when I called her profile fake and made it obvious who she was by the things she said. On Meetme she makes these fake profiles with really hot girls and adds me on them, then when I refuse to be sexual with her she says things to try to hurt me on a personal level, things that my ex boyfriend must've told her and that's how I know its her. She has SO many fake profiles on Meetme its ridiculous. She is basically the reason why my ex boyfriend and I aren't together anymore, she told me she was going to take him away from me...and she did. She would message me things like how ugly I am and how hot my boyfriend is and I told him to stop hanging out with her because she's making me feel uncomfortable. I know I can't control who he hangs out with but its common sense that when someone is bothering your girlfriend that you love you tell them to fuck off. He literally didn't say anything to her and when I broke up with him he started dating her again almost instantly because she "pressured him". We broke up 8 months ago. I've tried being nice to her even though she's a psycho bitch because if I'm mean to her she blows up my phone but regardless she's still a bitch. I don't understand how someone could be so fucked up, what the hell is wrong with this girl that she has to stalk my life? I'm pretty aware this isn't normal I just want to know why she does this?

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Based on 52 votes (10 yes)
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  • Gravy
    11 years ago

    Stop feeding her. Block her and in Jo every way possible. Get them out of your life totally. I don't know what MeetMe is but delete the application and don't bother. She will get bored if you stop biting. And he your ex was half a man, he would stop her. So he's not worth a pitch of shit either. Cut them out of you life totally.

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  • manii92
    11 years ago

    Slap her

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  • Shroot
    11 years ago

    shove a cactus up her asshole

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    • pieman_69
      11 years ago

      or a thron bush but that works also

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  • xoxochick
    10 years ago

    She jealous of you defiantly don't meet her

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  • standbyme555
    11 years ago

    How mature.

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  • PapzBSlim
    11 years ago

    Ignore. You sure it is not him on there making these fake profiles instead?

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    • screwthestandard
      11 years ago

      No, its definitely her. My ex isn't as cruel as her and his fake profiles are like all cartoon characters, plus the way they type is VERY different. And to the people that tell me to block her, I do block her. I have many of her accounts blocked but she makes more. However, she hasn't harassed me in a while so that's good.

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  • nursebetty
    11 years ago

    Jealous, it makes people go crazy. I had someone like this too and she even threatened to kill me, ran me off the road and harassed my young daughter in front of the school office staff, tried to punch me in the face at a kids play place and other assorted nasty crap. This person is obviously so consumed with jealousy that she may be dangerous so block her and stay the hell away from both of them, he sounds like a total idiot too!

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    i don't know

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  • sheat
    11 years ago

    first of all block her from fb and jus ignored her she wants attention and maybe she feels something for you and she just cant let you go

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    • screwthestandard
      11 years ago

      I really doubt that, lol. The things she's said to me tell me otherwise, and its not like I ever dated her or anything.

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  • sYki
    11 years ago

    What a twisted game she's playing, definately not unheard of though. Shes doing it cause she was jealous of you for the guy you were with. No matter what you do she ends up "winning" in a way. She harasses you cause she still sees you as a threat and that he still has feelings for you and is almost forcing you to ignore her and ultimately him, or you can tough it out and want to keep him a part of your life and get constantly bullied by her. The healthiest thing for you to do is sadly just let her have him, try not to dwell on it and concider it a learning experience and find someone else. I sense you knew all this already and are humbly seeking support, if this is true then hang in there and you had it right all along. Your must be more of a live at let live type and her a live and let die, which makes you the better person overall.

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    • screwthestandard
      11 years ago

      I have found someone else, who coincidentally dated her before for 2 weeks. When she found out she called him and asked him to hang out with her and if she could spend the night but he kept ignoring her and she gave up after a month. I don't know why she sees me as a threat because I don't try to talk to my ex, he's tried talking to me maybe twice but I just tell him to go away. I wish I could get over this situation but its really annoying and I felt like venting about it I suppose.

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      • sYki
        11 years ago

        Kinda funny, I was even gonna suggest that you date someone she dated as a means to get "even" but that would of caused more drama so I left it out, thinking that she would in turn try to take him from you to (which it appears she did try). She sees you as a threat not because you do or dont talk to your ex but maybe he still talks about you? This girl is obviously so consumed by jealousy of you. It sounds like she's using psychological projection as a defense mechanism and has certain insecurities about her looks and/or personality that are trigger by thoughts of you, when she calls you ugly it means she feels your more desirable than her and you make HER feel ugly, even if these are not your intentions, so she "projects" these feelings on to you by calling you ugly.

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