Is it normal that my ex boyfriend messes with my head

There's your problem - you keep trying to talk to him.

You already said he hates you. What are you getting out of going back to him for more? I mean where's the fun in giving him permission to hurt you more?

Yeah to me if someone gets really skinny and suddenly becomes an jerk then he is probably on drugs.

Agreed^ the first thing that came to my mind were drugs too . But honestly what more do you want . Him saying he hates you should be enough closure

Move on.

He can only mess with your head if it's around to mess with. Leave him be and focus on finding happiness without him.

Maybe he's on drugs...if he changed and got all skinny and what not. That's the first thing that came to my mind but what do I know I'm stupid:)

I don't know why he's being an ass. And I don't need to know why. But it's clear he's acting like a horrible person, and you shouldn't worry yourself with trying to fix him. He's not worth it. He doesn't respect you. If talking isn't fixing things you need to cut connection with him. Delete him from your contacts and don't talk to him again.

Sounds like you hurt this guy pretty bad and your completley oblivious to it. Or he found a new love in his life and she goes by the name of methamphetamine.

Could be so many reasons... maybe he has new friends that he needs to impress, maybe he has a condition and needs help, maybe he met another girl and she is extreemly jelouce.... anyway, its not you, and btw - I would move on, he's a lunatic.

You are crazy and obsessed. This will end in a murder suicuide.

Whoa, he sounds like a jerk! I know a guy like that who is also really skinny now. I actually think he's on hardcore drugs. I wouldn't be surprised if the guy your talking about is too. The guy that I know of is similar. He used to be so nice to me, we were semi friends, and he used to like me. But one day a new girl came along. Now he talks smack about me to people that don't even know me. People who I don't even know either. And he says that I think I'm the shit and a whole load of crap like that. Its crazy how people can turn on someone like that just because a new girl is in the picture.

With that, I agree with joybird. There is definitely another woman in the picture now. Guys are always like that when fresh meat comes along. I've had exeriences with guys acting that way towards me. Guys that were once pursuing me, and now treat me like shit because a new girl came along.

Leave that jerk behind. You need to move on and show him that you're completely over him, because right now his ego is HUGE, because he knows you're hurting for him. He wants that. He wants that attention. Show him you don't give a fuck anymore. You can do better anyway. I don't even know you, and I already know you can do better, girl!

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There is nothing you can do anymore . Trust me one day he will wake
Up and realize how badly he fucked up . But you have to say no to him and live your life . It's probably for the best , do u really want to be tied down to a loser like that ?

Wow, thanks so much for the insightful comments! They were very enlightening. It still bothers me that there's another woman in the picture because I want him to reach a point where he thinks back and realizes that he was wrong, and that I'm a good girl. I know that I shouldn't care, and I probably won't when I move on completely, but.. It still sucks. I'm very sure he's not on drugs, but I do think he has some sort of condition or something up with his head. Bipolar disorder maybe? I don't know. Early in our relationship, when I was about 14 (17 now), he says I broke him down and ruined his confidence and personality by nagging and bitching all the time. I changed that when I was about 15, so it was a longggg time ago. I think he holds a grudge.

please recognize that hes poison, evil, vile piece of SHIT. he is to you, as kryptonite is to superman. I know it can be so tough to move on. especially after so long and when youve evolved while being with him. its hard to see yourself without him so you hang on and try to salvage. it sux so bad. am I right? if so, what u really,really need to do is find the strength you have within (yes its in there!!) and further evolve by yourself. for example, if you find yourself sad and missing him, go exercise. find something u enjoy to do, and dont forget to try to eat healthy, some kind of food u like eating. this way u will beat depression, be improving yourself emotionally and physically, and if u avoid unhealthy food, it further prevents depression, plus it will greatly improve your stamina and energy level while working out. if ur not motivated to do all this right now, thats fine. just, when ur crying, at the end of ur rope, then that can motivate u to take one step, then another when ur ready. pain can be a great motivater, and u will be so happy if u can pull thru and continue on! good luck, and u r in my prayers!

Hes on drugs

100% agree! Delete his number and forget about the jack@ss!

He has moved on to another woman and another world of drugs.

Men always say you're nuts etc when they have another woman to compare you to, and she's the star of the moment.

I think you both need to grow up a bit.

Have you HONESTLY been a complete angel while you were with him? I mean in your own head the things you did may have seemed normal... But if you think of it from an outside perspective, did you actually do things that could have been construed as psychotic?
If not, maybe he's just out of his mind so I'd move on and not worry about it because he's a fucking nutcase.