Is it normal that my ex boyfriend got me off, new one doesn't?

Hi everyone.
My ex boyfriend (a few years ago) used to make me cum through sex easily, and every time. Also through oral sex too.
My new boyfriend of 8 months has not been able to at all. He gets me close, but never there. It is incredibly frustrating and starting to really upset me. I don't even want to have sex anymore as we are both disappointed at the end (I try not to show it).
Why is this happening? Anyone have any ideas why?
Is it normal?
Thanks guys!

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75% Normal
Based on 4 votes (3 yes)
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Comments ( 8 )
  • BoredGuy

    some things require talent an skill!

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  • Jessica12345

    Have told him what to do, and we do the exact same things as the last one (not telling him that though!!). Hence why I'm pretty confused haha.

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    • cathy22

      maybe you could explore doing new things with this new guy.

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      • shuggy-chan

        ^^^ exacty my advice (cath is such a smart cookie) xD , was it the first time u did... whatever u do now when u did it with ur ex. maybe go exploring new thinks, sail new horizons. it could help

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  • randomjelly

    Tell him what to do. Boom. Problem solved.

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  • There has to be something the last guy used to do that made you more excited that the new guy doesn't do.

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  • cathy22

    what turned you on with the last guy?

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    • Jessica12345

      It's not about being turned on - there's no problem with that part. It's just the climax part. My ex had a slightly bigger 'member', but not enough to make that much of a difference..
      Thanks everyone, keep the ideas coming!

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