Is it normal that my dreams make me discouraged and insecure??

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So everytime I start to have some sort of crush, whether it's a classmate or celeberity, I eventually have a dream that starts off with us together then something happens where he starts to ignore me. It's like we start off okay, then some girl, usually my cousin or sister, comes in and he shifts all of his attention to her. It's like I don't exist anymore. When I wake up, I can't look at the guy the same. I always think that it wouldn't last or something. Is it normal that I get discouraged from these dreams? My self esteem just gets lower and lower when these dreams occur. Or is it that my dreams occur because of my low self esteem?? Lol it's like that "What came first? Chicken or Egg?" question. Anyway is this normal?

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  • IIN2?uestionlife
    12 years ago

    Well in my experience its the opposite. I dream of a girl that I like and in that dream we start out as friends. Then I get her number and before you know it we're flirting lol. But when I wake up and realise the reality, that she is still unaware of my existence, I get discouraged and lose my confidence. I hate that. But I can understand where your coming from and can say that its normal

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