Is it normal that my doctor's eyes are so gorgeous?

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My therapist has probably, the most beautiful blue eyes that I have ever seen. They are absolutely gorgeous. I often find myself looking deeply into them. I know that eye contact in therapy can be a very powerful thing, but sometimes I worry that she'll think that I have feelings for her since she knows that I am gay. While I do care about her very much, I am not in love with her. Sometimes, I want to complement her on her eyes but again, I worry that she will think that I am flirting with her. Is this normal?

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  • watashikara
    9 years ago

    They are trained under very strict ethical rules to not have relationships with their clients. My dad is training at the moment and it is a rule to not even date a client until a full TWO YEARS after the last visit. The fact that you are worried about giving a simple compliment makes me think that you care about her much more than you are letting on. Please don't endanger her job and she will most likely shut any relationship possibilities with you down at the slightest occurrence. Its fine to compliment but just let it be a compliment.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      It deeply sickens me how much you have twisted my post.

      I am NOT in love with her, as already stated. She is married and straight. Just because I happen to be gay, doesn't mean that I am going to act like a slag and try to fuck every woman I come in contact with.

      My worries stem from the fact that I am extremely insecure about my sexuality. I always have been this way. It has always caused me great amounts of panic when there was the risk that people might think that I was gay and hitting on them. It's terrifying. I also worry about offending her.

      She is like a role model to me. The type of care that I feel towards her is strictly platonic, much like the love that a child might feel towards their parent. She is the only strong and functional adult that I currently have in my life that I can trust.

      I have morals. I would need ever try to destroy her career or anyone else's for that matter.

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      • watashikara
        9 years ago

        Seems like this is your main issue, worrying about your Doctor's perspective of you is just a single case. I'm glad I brought this out of you. Hopefully future comm enters will be able to give you better feedback with this information.

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  • bananapie
    9 years ago

    Wow, I feel the same bout my therapist :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    so nice..dont tell just look :)

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