Is it normal that my dad kisses me on the neck?

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My dad has kissed me on the neck several times. The first few times, I told him I didn't like it, and he became defensive, told me I was overreacting. The last time he did it, we were in public (with my mom right there) and I said, "Dad, that is something husbands and wives do. Don't do it again." I don't know if I'm overreacting. But he has gotten physically aggressive before, when I refuse to pay him attention (he restrains me and pushes me into corners and intimidates me) but can I add the kissing to the list of abuses, or is it inconsequential?

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  • UsernameNotAvailable
    12 years ago | pl

    Holy shit....Call child services. I think it can count as sexual harassment. If you want to protect yourself and prevent yourself from possibly getting raped in the near future then I suggest you do it. Don't be affraid because this poor excuse for a father can traumtize you for life. AND WHAT THE HELL IS YOUR MOM DOING ABOUT THIS? Oh god don't end up like Precious.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago | pl

    Tell your Mom.

    If she tries to defend him explain that it doesn't matter if he thinks it's innocent. Tell her it's making YOU feel sexual.

    and if that doesn't work call CPS

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      My mom just stands there and looks away and pretends it's not happening.

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        11 years ago

        then there's choice 2 - call CPS

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  • kyanviado
    12 years ago | pl

    I would like to know who the fuck voted yes

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    • Charmo
      12 years ago | pl

      Probably her dad.

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
      12 years ago

      might be someone who thought they were agreeing with the OP?

      It's hard to tell on some of these story-format ones sometimes

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  • SubParPhalus
    12 years ago | pl

    not normal i suggest ringing childline

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  • Brad07305
    12 years ago

    That sucks. If you can stay at a friends house, do it. Get away from those two. There's something wrong with both of them.

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  • bumblecreek
    12 years ago

    please call someone. that kissing may lead him to do worse things.

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  • ineida
    12 years ago

    Please take these advices seriously. Find refuge in the home of someone you can trust.

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  • BlueAlice
    12 years ago

    Run away from home and disown your parents at the first opportunity!

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  • Jsea
    12 years ago

    GET OUT!!! That is not safe and NOT normal. You really need to contact someone or get out of the house. It is a very scary situation that shouldn't be taken lightly. And if your mother isn't doing anything to help you, then my vote is you need to get out NOW.

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  • asdfjkl;
    12 years ago

    uhhhhm.. what do you mean by "the list of abuses"... THAT SOUNDS SUPER WRONG!! IF THERE'S A LIST YOU NEED TO GTFOUTTA THERE!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Not normal. Sort the problem out before it leads to something 10X worse. This might not happen, but him raping you is something that this could lead up to.

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  • Sidekickz
    12 years ago

    Your dad= child rapist

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  • Its_Called_Love
    12 years ago

    Call someone.

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  • Avant-Garde
    12 years ago

    How old are you?!

    I agree with SubParPhalus, you need to call the hotline.

    What does your mother or friends think?

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  • jksecret
    10 years ago

    That is NOT NORMAL..

    Go to a trusting friend or teacher & tell them what is going on. If you unsatisfied with there help ten social services or the police will be the last line for defence.

    Its going to be very difficult for you to leave the family but it needs to be done for your protection
    (This means no more abuses, arguing, fighting, restrains, cornering, intimidate etc.)
    You need to contact social services. or visit your local police station & tell them you been abused by your father.

    I pray for a wish for you & other children to take this advice. Best wishes.

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  • Dohzrny
    10 years ago

    Thats fucked up and not normal. Tell someone and get help before something happens.

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  • KateTheHuman
    11 years ago

    AHHH! I pressed yes! I ment to press no! No! That is most definitely not normal.

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  • drego551
    11 years ago

    Totally normal

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  • Bubbles-for-life
    11 years ago

    Yell at your father if that doesnt work like i always say....cheese is the answer

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    A quick kick in the bollocks should stop him.

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  • red14
    12 years ago

    If you don't get help now then when will you. The wors it gets the harder it will be to go for help and the wors the consequevses will be for all. If you give into him now then he will think that you accept what he is doing.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    SubParPhalas knows the truth.

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  • ModelDMJ
    12 years ago

    This sounds fake ...

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago

    Well in my culture families kiss eachother on the cheek all the time. A few times they'll miss and kiss you on the neck. So several times doesn't seem like such a big deal.

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    • RubyCane
      12 years ago

      Looks like the OP's dad has an IIN account... XDDD

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  • Dozis
    12 years ago

    I'd kiss you in all kinds of places. If you know what I mean... now I got to go, butts to kiss.

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