Is it normal that my dad is this touchy feely?

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He's always been really huggy, but I've noticed it more lately. He kisses me on the neck all the time, and I make it clear that I don't like (I shrink away and I cover my neck) but he still does it. He smacks my butt all the time and I always tell him to stop (which is normal for little kids I think, but I'm a teenage girl). He always comes up from behind me and grabs me around the middle (the kind of thing you see in the girlfriend/boyfriend pictures). He also sometimes pins me on the ground and straddles me with his legs and it makes me really uncomfortable and he never gets off even when I tell him to and he usually gets really mad.
He makes me really uncomfortable a lot. I don't know if he means to or what, but he does.
I feel like I can't say anything to anybody in my family because they would get really mad and I'm scared to. Is this normal?

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Comments ( 17 )
  • LittlePea
    10 years ago

    There's something seriously wrong with your dad. I hope it's not going to progress to sexual intercourse.

    I think many people would say "tell someone", I would suggest that too. But make EXTRA SURE that the person you are telling is reliable and helpful.

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    • Agirlsbestfriend.
      10 years ago

      "I hope it's not going to progress to sexual intercourse"

      you so do

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      • LittlePea
        10 years ago

        No, I don't. I'm a girl just like the OP, so I know how it feels who someone you don't like (in this case, OP's dad) tries to force themself onto you.

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  • 69
    10 years ago

    that's just wrong

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Your dad obviously does not respect your boundaries. The kind of interactions you described are definitely not normal, especially since you have made it clear that you do not like how he is touching you and he keeps doing it anyway.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    10 years ago

    Have you discussed this with your Mum, or another adult relative you can trust? I know this type of thing can be very upseting and embarrassing to talk about but you mustn't let him keep treating you like this. Good luck.

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  • YourMomSaysHello
    10 years ago

    Father daughter sex in completely normal,if you live in New Orleans.

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    • iluvboth
      10 years ago

      and if you don't live in New Orleans lol

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    • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
      10 years ago

      everthans normal in nola. no ceptions

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      • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
        10 years ago

        yeah right. hate on myall arse all yall want. like all thatall weird shit only happens in the best city in nolausa

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  • Doggysue
    7 years ago

    Tell someone soon before it gets worse.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Oh, PLEASE... Stop fooling yourself. This sounds like you don't like it... but I'm sure you DO. If you are bothered by it, then tell a responsible adult or the police. If it just barely bothers you, then start doing it to him... HE may feel uncomfortable and stop on his own. However, I think you like the attention your dad is giving you, and you should suck his dick already.

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  • missy100
    10 years ago

    He probably wants to do more with you. I know from experience.

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  • iluvboth
    10 years ago

    you should show him how it feels to be treated that way. hug him and rub your boobs on him. tell him it is your turn to get on top of him and sit on him and tickle him. tell him that if he complains that next time you will sit on his face. Lol
    but seriously this might be the only way he knows how to show affection.

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    • missy100
      10 years ago

      Funny.

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  • thr
    10 years ago

    That's not normal. Make sure you don't have an unrealistic view of how others would react if you told them about this. There ought to be someone, who would be helpful and understanding, if you told them.

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  • Mersaphe
    10 years ago

    Don't make your dad mad. If you tell him to stop touching you he might turn into a serial killer. Men can be very unpredictable. Maybe he's not getting enough sex with your mom and wants something extra

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