Is it normal that my dad is becoming less liberal and more ignorant?
My dad ever since I was born was honestly my favorite parent. He's so understanding and had freedoms I didn't realize I had until now. For example, if I made a mistake he would tell me it's ok or if I lied he wouldn't lecture me at all just tells me not to do it again. It's usually my mom and yes she was my least favorite. Very least. Now, I'm 17 turning 18 and I'm close to cutting off contact with him. He became so much more conservative and completely ignorant. When I bought myself really high quality but pricey human hair extensions last year on my birthday my dad blew up saying how he understands it's my money, but ranted on how much money I've spent and I just told him to stop. He got even more madder and called me a stupid bitch. I wanted to transfer high schools, which I did, and when I got accepted to my new school which I did the whole process myself, my dad said "I bet you will have more problems there than your old school." Any other events I want to be in, like me volunteering, my dad always add the word "shit" to what I'm interested in. Ex "let her do the kickboxing shit" "if you want to go do that vegandiet-shit" Like he's a totally different person. I thought me, a teen, should be this defiant and angry. My dad is actually this. He keeps telling me how anger issues and any mental illness relating to it runs in our blood. But I have a neutral-gentle personality. Like I'm the type to never, ever aue or even raise my voice. Before he was never like this, only this one time I broke his glasses when I was 7. Now if you have a spec of a water droplet in the kitchen counter when he says clean kitchen, he'll see it and give you lip. Yah he is ocd with cleanliness. Big time. He's always like that. But what I don't get is why be strict now? I think it makes more sense if he was strict with me young, then liberal when I'm 18. Also it seems so hard for him to give support or a positive response. For example, my cousin who my parents are legal gaurdiand shaved half her head and my dad said " that's a start of bigger shit you will cause." My dad said when I became vegan "I don't know who convinced you to be vegan, but I don't like them already."