Is it normal that my cousin basically hates my bf for no reason?

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So ive been dating this guy for 2 months now. He's the nicest, sweetest, generous, respectful, all- around good guy that ive ever dated. I seriously think he's the one. (we're both virgins btw)
Unlike my exes, I trust him 100% & my bros, friends and parents actually really like him. I can honestly say that he is my best friend. :')
HOWEVER, my 14 year old cousin..(who's pretty slutty btw) doesn't like him. And thats kind of a big deal because my cousin is-or was- a sister ive never had. But our relationship hasn't been so great & we've been drifting apart & I don't tell her everything like I used to. It seems like all she does is try too hard, its annoying because all she cares about is looking good, having sex, drinking & being cool I guess -_-. She's gotten really conceited & fucking annoying.
So yesterday was her mom's bday party & my mom invited my bf to come with us. It was the first time hanging out with my extended family.
Well my cousin comes out, she's all dressed up & we've been waiting for her to come out & say hi and shit. I go up to her & hug her. My bf just kinda stood in the back, then went to go sit with my mom because he was feeling awkward & unwelcome. And my cuz seemed upset or something, but she denied it.
So she sat with me, him & my parents & she kept making comments like 'oh those are cute jeans, they'd look better on me' & mom said something about wearing a bikini & she was like 'naw yall ain't ready for dis, I'd look to good' ....-_-
well long story short, my cousin had no knowledge of my bf so I guess that could be a reason. Also, I don't invite her places with me anymore cuz of the smutty way she acts around my guy friends. She wants all the attention on her it seems. So later that night i was inside sitting with my bf & she was outside with her shitty pothead of a bf & she straight up says "I don't like him."
And later that night my uncle (her dad) says "who's that ugly kid over there!' and she's like 'idk nobody tells me nothing anymore' and she's walking away, stops and says my name..then keeps walking. And I'm just standing with my bf & he says 'damn..that was mean :(' and I'm just standing there, I felt so bad & was literally holding back tears because hearing that was like a punch in the heart:/
Sorry its so long, I just need to get this out. Is it normal the way my cousin's acting?
help :(

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  • DrinaVonCheez
    13 years ago

    Ha she lost her v-card at 13 man:/
    its disgusting...and she always finds a way to brag about it, and puts me down in front of guys because I'm still a virgin. She'll be like "oh whatever you ain't never did shit in your life" ha
    fucking annoyinggggg. She doesn't know half the stuff she should know about sex either, which is the thing that kills me the most. I wouldn't be surprised if she got pregnant and/or contracted an STD before she's 16. -_-

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  • YeeP
    13 years ago

    Wow your cousin sounds reallllly slutty sex at 14?

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  • DannyKanes
    13 years ago

    ^ agreed, jealousy is such a bitter thing

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  • kricket
    13 years ago

    Nope. Girls shouldn't be having sex at 14 either.

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  • regisphilbin
    8 years ago

    lol nice story

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  • Sweetz
    13 years ago

    Wow now thats just sadddd.....her having sex at that age and bragging about it like its cool but its so not cool that she can catch something. Nowadays things spread quickly and people dont say what they have. before opening her legs she should do more research and respect herself. And well...hope shes using protection at least. She seems kinda snotty. Maybe shes jelous because your boyfriend has become your attention. probably feels replaced. Talk to her one on one without your bf. Say that you feel distant and miss the way things use to be. Spend Some quality time together. find her a serious bf perphaps itd make your life easier and then youd be able to have double dates :D

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    tell her to go fuck her self and the she need to get a life and if she dose not stop sneak in to her room at night and die her hair purple then take all of her clothes and put them in the trash then when she wakes up toss eggs at her.

    but if u still like her then tell her how u fell first but i think the first idea is more fun

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago

    i think she might be upset because your relationship with her isnt what it used to be. im sure she saw you as her sister too and she might be confused why you dont spend much time together anymore. i think maybe if you go out of your way to hang out with her, she might change the way she sees your boyfriend. for her to be so negative about your boyfriend gets your attention and that must be how she gets attention from everyone else. if you show her "attention" without her being so nasty then she might change.
    dont let her rope you into an argument, try to change the subject about stuff you used to talk about and laugh about.
    family is really important, she will probably grow out of it but by that time you would probably hate each other. i wish you all the best!

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  • DrinaVonCheez
    13 years ago

    Idk man I just dk...
    I mean we're family, she should be happy for me :/
    but all she's doing is judging and she doesn't even know him, nor has she given him a chance.

    This sucks.

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  • bleach_baby
    13 years ago

    what a bitch

    tell her to shut up or fuck off

    she sounds jealous

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