Is it normal that my brother thinks im hot?

My big brother is 3 years older than me, and im 19. I dont usually talk to him that much, but hez a good bro. But it shocked me when he said to me, that im a hot sexy girl; It felt weird coming from a brother. This made me nervous, but then he said i wish i'd find a girl like you someday; he doesn't usually open up to me... is this normal??

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  • Noonesperfect

    If he just said "your a hot sexy girl" then that would be wierd but the he said he wants to find someone like you, so I think it's normal n your his type of girls he likes

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  • BoredGuy

    Usual siblings either grow closer with the years or completely grow apart. I think he is reaching out to you in a brotherly manner.

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    • graydarkness

      There's nothing brotherly about that, honey

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  • SATC

    If my brother said that to me I would be freaked, but I think maybe he just loves you as a brother and can see you are attractive and wants to find himself a nice, pretty girl like you.

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  • isitforeal

    LOL @brianviper

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  • hnbout

    Don't worry too much about what he said. It's a great compliment that he thinks so highly of you. You must be a good catch. If you and your brother can be close, then don't hold back; it could be the greatest thing ever.

    Continue being a good sister, and take everything your brother gives you as a gift of love... and give the same to him in return.

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  • brianviper

    Light him on fire

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  • It's creepy I'd tell him off and stay away

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  • 8Serene8

    That's quite creepy and gross. Not cool. Family shouldn't say that about one another.

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  • graydarkness

    Ew. Not normal. At all. That's disgusting.

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  • teknohippy

    ur brothers probably just a lonley older man and if u said u werent that close before then he might see u sexually. its weird. he needs a hobby and/or a significant other.

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  • lulapian

    Brothers and sisters are supposed to fight and annoy each other for a reason, so that they don't wind up having kids together. Stay away from your bro or you'll wind up with a two headed kid. And tell him to go on Match.com and leave you alone. If it wasn't creepy or strange, you wouldn't be asking online.

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  • a215

    that is kinda weird

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  • Sotchi

    He's just being honest and clearly thinks highly of you. Don't trip out on it. Take it for what it is- a compliment from a fam member that loves and admires you.

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  • YeahSureOk

    It's not creepy or weird. He just thinks ur good looking. It's better than being ugly and him hating u. If he held ur hand and stroked ur hair while he told u this then that's gross. Lol

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  • chewy

    he obviously wants to fuck you let him maybe you are hot who knows

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  • Incest.

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  • Justmehere

    If you get along well, it's a nice, up-front compliment. You can relate as honest adults, equals, besides brother and sister. I've told my hot older sister she's hot, looks sexy, etc. tons of times. She'll ask how she looks in something, like a skirt or skin-baring shirt, and I'll tell her "hot as always".

    Few holidays ago, I went to her house to get stuff she had in the oven to take where we were eating. She was wearing a tight skirt with tucked-in, nearly see-through shirt, and presented such a perfect, sexy figure leaning into the oven and over the table, that I had to tell her, that skirt and see-through is hot on you. Look amazing today. She ate it up.

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    • Dot123isgay

      When you tell her these compliments does she react by showing more or taking a look at you hinting that there may be more if you persuaded her?

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      • Justmehere

        We've messed around in the past, so, yeah..My compliments usually result in a sly look from her. This past Summer, at her house, she wore a very tight, way-hot tank top that just made her boobs burst out..I had to comment/compliment her, but waited until we were alone, upstairs.

        Told her, jokingly "Can that tank top get any tighter? Driving me crazy all day, ready to pop out". Her fun response? "Go ahead, grab away..You're going to anyway, and, I'm kinda asking for it!". So, I went at her boobs for minutes. She enjoyed it.

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        • Dot123isgay

          Are you wearing revealing bottoms too? She ever make the move in you and just begging to touch you places?

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          • Justmehere

            She doesn't have to beg. Took me to a part-time job I had at a garage one hot as hell day..I'm in work shorts and a t-shirt, and she picked me up, wearing her tiny, barely-there, black bikini, as she was only dropping me off and not getting out of the car. Was still all oiled up from tanning, too. Had me revved-up and hard.

            We're on the way, and she pulls into a side alley short cut, and noticed the bulge in my shorts. Asked "Did I do that?", knowing she did. Then told me, directly, if I could tell her what I wanted her to do, she'd do it. Just wanted to hear it from me.

            Told her I wanted her to feel it (she had killer, long nails that we both loved) before I had to work all night. Then told her what I really wanted: her to stroke me off until I burst. She complied, very well, we got ourselves together, and she took me to work. One happy guy. If we had had phones back then, I'd have had hundreds of pics of her.

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  • Stryk3istrukuout

    It's a compliment, but I think he's probably a little lonely, and seeing what he wants in you...plus you're a safer zone being someone he knows. I think he's a little confused right now about what's normal.

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  • Hottigene

    I think your Brother by telling you this just showed you how much he Loves and respects you have you ever heard the saying I want a girl just like the girl that married Dear old Dad but with him its his Sister thsts Lovely.

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  • TROLLER754

    hmm probobly he is trying to get closer to u as a brother since u and him are siblings but ._____. saying that is kinda weird.

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  • booshoe

    ewww... WHo are you Cleopatra marrying your brother and all ! GRoss He is a sickO!!!!!!!!

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  • jex519

    incest you guys need therapy or just do it 2 get satisfied send me the video and ill dress my penis up as spider man than play with it until spidey swings his sticky web and i just leave it there.

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  • JD-795

    It's normal. As long as he's not trying to touch you. (Unless you want that) if it makes you feel uncomfortable tell him that, if he cares about you he'll understand.

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  • ilove.nsn

    Pedo.
    0.o

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

      How is that pedo? They're both over 19.

      Incest yes, but pedo no.

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