Is it normal that my brother is taking advantage of me
So, when I was younger I was Super egoistic but my whole family was sort of in that category too. When I was younger my younger Brother was is 2 years younger he used to be close to me. But as we grew older things changed. When I was 12 I always gave way to him, even the most ridiculous request which was obviously his fault. Like for example whenever he would study late(we share the same room) he would always blast music, I would silently fume but say nothing. When I told my parents they just said how i deserved it cause I always made too much noise during the weekends playing. But my grades are slipping and my stress is increasing. I am scared to tell my parents about what is happening. My Brother is always arguing with me and how my parents see it is that I am always at fault. But everytime I give way and that one time I don't it turns into a major issue with me, my parents think it's cause I game too much. So I really don't know what to do, tbh I shouldn't have gave way when I was younger, I developed Low self esteem and had no friends when I was younger. But I began to become more assertive and made friends but my Brother is ruining my confidence. Now every night I worry that he might disturb me and during school it's hard to focus in between the drowsiness and the worrying about how bad tonight will end. Please help me idk what to tell my parents