Is it normal that my brother(12) is submissive to his girlfriend?

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My little brother is in grade 7 and he got his first girlfriend recently. I've seen them kissing a few times and they're cute together, but when she comes over he's really quiet and she does all the talking for both of them.

I know kids are doing it younger and younger these days so I privately asked my brother how far he's gotten with the girl, and he admitted he'd gone down on her but that was all that had happened.

Aside from the obvious problem of how young these kids are sexually active, isn't it a little weird that he's giving her head and not the other way around? I'm all for female empowerment, but the whole thing seems backwards to me.

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  • moomus
    13 years ago

    First it's oral, and before long it will be the whole hog. Then she'll be pregnant. I'd be more concerned about that as it's likely they haven't thought about the consequences

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  • flamer180
    9 years ago

    no no you guys are doing it all wrong, first you gotta greese the feet, then stick a banana up there and its goodbye tommorow!

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  • Gasmasker
    11 years ago

    As a sensible dominant female, I must say that it's not your brother's submissive tendencies that are the problem; it's the fact that HE'S FUCKING TWELVE. Why is he having any sort of sex and why the bloody hell are you encouraging it?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    try this : TELL HIM ABOUT CONDOMS ,if they want to do it , they will , if you forbid it , or dont teach them anything about it she'll get pregnant and you'll be auntie/uncle :)

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    13 years ago

    This is disturbing on several levels.

    1) You know what your little brother is doing in bed.

    2) You don't realize that it's called "eating her out" vs "giving head"

    3) You're more concerned that he's not getting blow jobs vs the fact that he's having any form of sex at that age.

    If that bugs you so much go tell mommy and daddy.

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      Well to be fair to OP, going down is a pretty common term for oral sex, so that's a questionable point.

      I do find the being concerned about him not getting a bj a little strange though... :/

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    i dont like the tone

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I'm just concerned he's becoming sexually active that early, I don't think the whole who gave oral to who is too important.

    He should hold off being intimate for now, he's still just a kid.

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