Is it normal that my brain short circuits around guys?

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Okay so here it is. I am honestly a guys kinda girl. Heck, 90% of my friends are guys. We have xbox tournaments, do some stupid sh*t like give eachother war paint and have paint ball fights and its frickin' awesome. I just mesh better with them a lot of the time.
But im definitely still a girl. And this seems to be my main problem... Ive had crushs on a few of my buds and can almost always talk myself out of it, but when it comes to finding a guy i dont know attractive? IM SCREWED. My brain literally short circuits and i turn into a broken record of asinine comments!
I have honestly RUN AWAY from a very attractive guy i met in a store a couple weekes ago. He helped me reach something on a higher shelf (im short, get off me.) and i couldnt say anything but thank you a million times as he smiled at me and i got flustered and grabbed the jar out of his hands and completely ran out of the eisle. I am starting to believe any romantic relationship with me is hopeless. Why do i act like this? I just dont get it.

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  • pala
    12 years ago

    This is the most adorable story I've read on IIN. If you had a pet kitten, I'd marry you.

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    • LostLes
      12 years ago

      My kittys name is jessie x)

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      • pala
        12 years ago

        Then we shall marry in a fruit orchard in September and shall always laugh at how an apple fell on the bridesmaid's head. Twice.

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  • RandomFactor
    12 years ago

    First take control of the situation and count to ten and take deep breath. Remember that you have other guy friends who just like you the way you are and let things roll from there. Keep a clear mind, and play it cool.

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  • debpratim.ghosh
    12 years ago

    Try to be confident and stick to one last decision when you are confused.

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago

    (im short, get off me.)

    I laughed :)

    It's normal. You're just nervous.

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  • weinereater
    12 years ago

    Used to happen to me all the time around girls, got a lot easier as I got older.

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  • Energy
    12 years ago

    Force yourself to flirt, until it becomes a natural thing. Remember, practice makes perfect!

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  • SuperBenzid
    12 years ago

    You'll most likely outgrow it. In the meantime just do the best you can and don't worry too much.

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  • Oasis808
    12 years ago

    I'm a guy and I think you act this way because your cuuuuute and a little shy. It's okay you'll outgrow it. I think this story was cute as hell tho :-p

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    • LostLes
      12 years ago

      Haha thanks :) im glad someone found it amusing!

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  • Austinpowers
    12 years ago

    hey im a guy and if you like him you dont run off you get to know him then ask him his skegwol and see if you can hang out with him and then after a awile ask him out and then plan a date trust me if it dont work just tell me and ill try to fix it ok

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