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So I've been with my bf for 6 months and our relationship is awesome. When we first started dating his mom had no problem with me but now it seems as if she hates me. She called me a bitch to him and told him I was unmotivating. Is she just jealous because her son is dating? Is this normal?
U probably did something, unwittingly, that pissed her off. Me and my best friend had this happen, his mom got very made at something I didn't realize I did, till he told me. So next time I saw her I apologized to her for anything I did that might upset her and if I do do something she disproves of. To tell me, so i can learn and correct it, cause I only have respect for her and would never intentionally be disrespectful to her. And I've never had any trouble since then
By showing respect and class u put them into a position were either they understand and u can move past any beef. Or they can be a bitch, in that case u tried and go back to thinking them to be crazy.
^^^^ explains my situation very well. She hates that he gives me so much attention
I'd caution you from assuming that someone is jealous by their not liking you. Look up what unmotivating means. Obviously she thinks you're distracting him from something that she feels he needs to be doing. Have his grades dipped? Is he performing poorly at work now? Is he blowing off responsibilities at home to spend time with you?
Maybe she's right and you are a bitch and unmotivating. Of course you won't find fault with your own behavior so saying "analyze yourself" might be moot, but analyze yourself and if you still can't see the trouble, either talk to him or talk to her. If you plan on being with him for a while you need to need to need to establish a relationship with Mom.
That's normal. Mothers tend to have a weird, possessive bond with their sons, and the littlest thing will freak them out. Just try to be nice and get on her good side as best you can.
Mabye you can try apologizing even if you did nothing...least youn can do is get rid of the verbal abuse
probobly hates kid. He might like the girl but not the package that came with it.
I haven't done anything I actually always try to keep him on track with school and all that. I honestly think his mom is just being over protective. His dad loves me though so idk
Yes it's normal. Heh. Of course there SHOULD be a reason (even a reeeeeally minor reason) but maybe she's just protective of her little boy. ;P
That wasn't nice of her to say that.
Is she really close to her son? If so, then yes, she's probably jealous because she sees you as the person that's taking her son away from her.
Maybe you did something that you can't see.
There is always a reason for hate but the reason is not clear to the hated.