Is it normal that my boyfriends ex want to date me ???

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Okay I'm bisexual and me and my boyfriend have been dating almost 9 months, well his ex girlfriend is bisexual as well & she wants to talk to me relationship & sexual wise ; at first I thought she wanted me just bc he has me but she broke up with him ! I'm not against talking to her bc she's fairly attractive but my boyfriend can't stand her, he doesn't want me tweeting, texting, or messaging her ,. Of course she says otherwise , she's asked me out twice already & knows that I'm with him but she says she doesn't mind sharing , what should I do ?? is it normal ?

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  • shuggy-chan
    11 years ago

    Threesome threesome threesome

    lol, sorry, i had too, but honestly it depends on your morals. Would you feel like you are betraying someone by talking to there ex, and about dating more then 1 person at a time seem to be a recipe for drama to me. people get jealous so easily when love is involed

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  • TerryVie
    11 years ago

    i'd guess first find out the exact reasons they broke up and WHY he can't stand her?
    If he's just bitter because she broke up with him, thats understandable, but childish.
    She doesn't mind sharing, despite having broken up with this person...
    The question is: What happened between them?
    Now, i don't claim i understand what guys think, but if technically he has a chance to have both you and his ex(via you) that broke up with THEM at the same time, wouldn't most guys jump at this chance?
    Don't get me wrong, i'm just wondering why he's generally refusing rather than make demands(a popular being: "If you do sexual stuff with another girl, i want to be there...and take part, even if just with you").

    How does he react to you and OTHER girls? I mean, he got himself an openly bisexual girl twice in a row, that does not sound like he's all buttoned-up and frigid...

    Just from what you wrote, to me, it sounds like there's something unresolved between them. Or he may be afraid that you will ultimately end up choosing her over him. *shrug* I'd say meet up with her and hear her thoughts about it.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    What a curious turn of events...

    Depends on how you feel. If you date her without ending it with your boyfriend, you'll be cheating on him. I don't think there's a possibility of you all knowingly sharing, because he can't seem to stand her and it may cause allot of tension.

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