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Me and , y boyfriend tried to have anal sex the otherday and we was trying for about 20 mins trying to put his dick in my hole but it wouldnt go in is this normal help please
Try using more lube. If that doesn't work then maybe your boyfriend is doing something wrong or your butthole is just too small and tiny. Lol
you have to relax the muscles, imagine your taking a shit, your butt hole will relax and it will be easier to push in.
Try working it in rather than forcing it in. Use enough lube and if he can get it in at all just let him work it at that point for a bit. Most likely you don't know how to relax down there yet. You can try using a slightly smaller toy first to get used to having something go in instead of out. Its not what its made for so it can take some work to get your body to relax and accept it, but when you get to that point it is amazing for both involved, good luck!
Are you severely constipated by any chance? If your waste is rock hard, it would make sense why he has been unable to put himself inside of you. If not, try using lube.
Try getting on top. Have him lie on his back and straddle his dick. Use lots of lube and S-L-O-W-L-Y lower yourself onto his dick. When just the tip is inside, lift yourself off him. Relax a bit and have another go, letting a little bit more in the next time. When it starts to hurt, lift yourself off again until the pain stops, then lube up and have another go. By being in control, you can relax, both physically, and mentally.
Hopefully your bf is patient, because he has to fight the urge to shove it in and just start banging away. But once he's inside, you can ride up and down until you're comfortable. Then, once you're good with it, wrap your legs around him, wrap your arms around his chest, and roll backwards onto your back with his dick still inside you. Now he can fuck you like he's been dying to all night.
In no time, you'll be the Power Bottom you were born to be!
First time or not, everyone's anus is different of course, but everyone does have somewhat of an "S" shape, where the anus connects to the intestine. Yours could be a perfect mixture of tight & curved. Only thing that will help is baby steps. Fingers, tiny dildos crafted exclusively for anal play, and maybe even his tongue if he is adventurous enough. Either way I commend you on your bedroom play, it certainly is rewarding when the proper steps are taken to ensure everyone is having a safe, mind blowing time.
Cheers!
Iknow girls that fuck themselves wit massive cucumbers just to widen there pussy for a big dick.
Anal sex is like normal sex. You don't just stuff it in! Even with lube it may be difficult to take a cock in your arse without your hole being warmed up first. Try we'll lubed fingers first, one then two. Try this until you feel relaxed. Being relaxed is key.. If you're feeling tense about the experience then your hole with tighten and won't allow a cock inside very easily. Like I say, relax and warm it up first.. Good luck