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I love him, but he wears skirts and frilly panties to bed and when we,*blush* do it, I feel like i'm a lesbian. is HE normal?
Lots of guys get horny when they wear panties but if he wears a skirt!? Not normal.
All these comments that imply "OMG, He's gay, or Not Normal, or whatever." Let me say this, HEY EVERYBODY NORMAL IS BORING,,, I am a crossdresser and have been for almost 35 years or so. Just because someones lifestyle doesnt fit into the social majority and their idea of what "Normal" is and is not and what is accepted or not, That doesnt give anyone else the right to try and overthrow what they do not or dont want to understand. He is fine, a little experimenting and curious, nothing wrong with it. If later on he starts getting more into crossdressing, He could really use a friend, some understanding, and your full support, and if not your support then your honesty about the situation. It took me almost 20 years to be able to accept myself as a bi-curious crossdresser. There is no way I would ask someone important to me to accept it on the spot. You may need time to let things sink in and realize hes hurting no one. There is also www.crossdressers.com if you need more answers and support. Just know that MOST Crossdressing males are heterosexual. If it bothers you tell him. And since I am a non smoker does that give me the right to judge people and belittle them for a "lifestyle" I dont agree with ? Hell no it does not. If someones life in no way entwines with mine or the effects of their life have nothing at all to do with me or my life, why should I worry about what someone else does in their own little world.
It's not unnatural. What is normal is what society accepts; which society doesn't accept men panty wearers. I wear them and I'm not going to run off with a dude. Don't worry about it, embrace it.
Um well he might just be kinda kinky or somthing.... I dont think hes gonna hurt you though... But not normal.
I am a male submissive and love to wear frilly panties and a pretty night dress to bed. I feel helpless and subserviant as I pleasure my wife but get extremely aroused. She teases me, saying that I look like a pretty girl but she says that sex is so much better and I am much harder and eager once my panties are off!
Guys who like to wear panties are not gay. I only wear panties and I have no desire to be with a guy. My wife buys me panties. When I first started I was hard and horny all the time when I wore them but now it doesn't effect me at all. It's just under ware and they are much more comfortable than men's under ware. If fact some stores sell men's under ware that looks like panties so there must be a lot of guys wanting this style of underware.
We'll never know for sure how many Males engages in transvestism. I couldn't say if there's any overwhelming tendencies among TV's, except they're overwhelmingly straight. (I doubt anyone remembers Marv Albert, but he's one guy I never would have suspected to ever be wearing women's clothing.)
Try getting into the reasons with your BF, you might be fascinated.
I don't think you guys have much longer together, very soon he will inform you that he is gay & has a boyfriend that he's moving in with.