Is it normal that my boyfriend watches porn?

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The other day I was using my boyfriends computer and I went to type 'Hotmail' in the address bar and after I typed hot, I noticed a porn site came up in the history. So I jokingly said something to him about it and he told me he hadn't looked at porn in a long time, so I told him maybe it was time to delete his history. When I went to do that for him I noticed that there was more than one site and only history from the past 7 days on his browser. So now I know he lied to me. So I started questioning him about it and he continued to lie. Eventually he confessed to it, but he told me he was looking at it the night he went to visit his dad at their cabin and I wasn't with him, but that was more than 7 days ago. I don't know what to think. I ask him LITERALLY every night to have sex and he doesn't say yes everytime, so I don't understand why he would need to beat off when he was only away for one night. Is this normal? Or do I not turn him on anymore?

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  • JPikake
    12 years ago

    I am 24. My BF of three years watches porn. I've walked in on him so many times as well as found evidence with "spe-semens". Although it may have nothing to do with me, it just confuses me that our sex life has lowered. He says he's not like how he used to be, yet he can go like hell when it "cums" to porn!!!! So I've snuck around and just decided to buy a dildo bigger than him - guys don't like it if their girls got a dildo bigger than them and says that if we have dildos, why do we need our men? Well boys, it's the same story when you watch porn. So now I'm gonna say it back to you, "it has NOTHING to do with YOU!"

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    • pandora000
      10 years ago

      Ridiculous, when he watches porn he's not "with" the girl in the porn is he? When you use a dildo bigger than his penis you are "with" the dildo.

      When men gets married it doesn't mean they lose interest in porn. Porn and love are different things, men can love his wife but still watch porn.

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  • ebonysky
    12 years ago

    Listen up females!!! I'm female and I have talked to many guys. My findings is this.... MEN LOOK AT PORN AND THEY JERK OFF! yes it feels good to say that. It doesn't have anything to do with you. Stop taking it personally.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Sometimes, I prefer to have sex with myself instead of with my husband. Sometimes, I like to watch porn and have sex with myself.

    I think I'm normal and I think your boyfriend is too.

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  • dom180
    12 years ago

    Well, he obviously wasn't going to admit it straight up, because he didn't want you to react like this. Every non-asexual man on earth watches porn occasionally, and if you find a man who says he doesn't, you've found a good liar, not a "real man". If he has a higher sex drive than you, you can't expect him to suffer because of it. If he has "loads of porn" like you say, he may be watching a little too much, but to ask him to quit completely is ridiculous and unrealistic.

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    I don't think women understand men's mindsets about watching porn. And I don't think men understand women's mindsets about how it makes them feel.

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  • JelliaJJ
    10 years ago

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c-glb-_heEg

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  • emilydoll
    12 years ago

    Boys watching porn is normal but u can set ground rules like to delete his history cause it grosses you out and tell him not to lie and you don't like it. I got mine to stop as far as I know

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  • emilydoll
    12 years ago

    You should have a talk about that.

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  • emilydoll
    12 years ago

    I really can't stand when people just sit their and lie.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    He couldn't just say he watched it the first time instead of lying to you? Sigh. He probably finds the fake chicks having sex more attractive than you. I don't understand how he can choose to watch porn over having sex with you but that's his choice. Tell him you don't like it that he watches porn and hopefully if he cares about you, he'll stop or atleast not lie to you about watching it. I hope he will change for you OP.

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  • ogkushgirl
    12 years ago

    I'm 28, female, and my fiance watches porn almost daily. I saw on Teddotcom a scientific study found that 100% of men watch porn on the internet and the average man watches an average of 50 porn scenes per day. Mt fiance is no exception. It's just to available to a visual species. They can't help it. I must confess, I masturbate and watch porn on my laptop. It's also a great way to understand what men want. I learned to emulate the most popular porn stars. I'm a girl and I prolly have 150 porn vids on my HD. I've perfected deep throating and anal sex. Deep throating is hard until you learn to "swallow" if you feel like gagging. Anal was gross to me at first, but I was determined to be my man's sex fantasy goddess, so I was going to do what the porn girls can do. Eventually I learned how to have anal completely painless (and my man is hung) and I have amazing orgasms from anal, I love fucking like a porn star, and I got a big fat diamond on my finger to prove my fiance is happy.

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    • 343Boy
      12 years ago

      100% of men watch porn on the internet? Well that study is obviously bullshit.

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    • ridgedfat
      8 years ago

      See girls listen to what she just said porn gets you both off if you just open up your mind. Just like my girl loves in all her wholes.i think I should spoil her with a nice big dildo myself im only 8" so a ten will be perfect its a win win

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    • bigtitties
      12 years ago

      i love watching porn

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  • LOUi_CUDi
    12 years ago

    guys r just fucken dogs, n this is coming from a guy

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Ladies, it's time to stop letting them get away with it. It's because so many of you making yourselves accept it, that it's become a norm and acceptable. If it makes you uncomfortable, say so. If I only love you, why would I want to see anyone else naked? Anyways, I'm old-fashioned and uptight, so don't listen to me. I'm sick of today's dwindling morals.

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  • honeybeee
    12 years ago

    these story's about boyfriends watching porn make me so sad because I know how much it hurts . when I found my bf of 2 years watched porn and look at fb pictures of girls it was the worst pain ever , he just wouldn't stop he promised he wohuld stop looking and I believed him but he lied so my advice is don't listen to him if he says he will stop coz he is lying and u should dump him like I did and find a real man, peace out xo

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  • Thereisnogod
    12 years ago

    Watching porn is like eating. You have a mouth to eat with, you have eyes for watching porn. Naked women is there anything better to a male

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  • JayX5
    12 years ago

    All guys watch porn. Whether theyll admit it or not isnt really an issue. Its just a guy thing. And i wouldnt worry about it so much. Maybe hes just one of thkse guys that isnt a sex addict.

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  • MagickWithoutTears
    12 years ago

    I think *all* men watch porn!

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  • honeybeee
    12 years ago

    fb means Facebook anddddd yeah stay strong woman!!! be happay

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