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My boyfriend let me use his computer. So I opened his address bar and I saw a couple porn sites on the history part. I'm not exactly sure how to feel about this...I'm not pissed but then again I'm so happy about it either. Is it normal to have your boyfriend look at porn even though his with you?
Lol, so you're basically jealous of his hand. I think everybody masturbates sometimes, especially if not getting any for a while, and some need help with that (porn). It's a personal thing, but it's best kept private, because it's almost like telling your gf about the consistency and texture of your feces the other day. Awkward, disturbing and unnecesary.
If he prefers jerking off over sex tho, then you have a problem.
Um, No- It isnt being jealous of his hand its being jealous he is getting off to other women, he is looking at girls who arent you and getting off imaging fucking them, Its a good way to make a girl feel insecure especially if she does have sex with you and is willing to try new things, but you keep going to porn anyways.
looking at porn once in a while doesnt mean he doesnt find you attractive or that he doesnt love you.
However if he is sneaking off to do it when you are around then thats maybe a little too much.
I like at porn and have a long time gf
I don't know about anybody else but as a man I watch porn even though my wife and I have sex. Don't think of it as cheating on you as much as his personal time. Sometimes I actually want to beat off more after sex. And don't think just because he watches porn he's going to cheat on you. Some of the other people had good answers too like maybe he's practicing on lasting longer or getting ideas as well.
Dude likes to bust a nut. What can I say? At least he's not cheating on you. Man is a horny creature.
It's normal. I probably look at more porn than my boyfriend. He knows about it... and I know about him watching porn. We have watched porn together. It's really no big deal. If he hasn't gotten any in a while and he looks at porn once in a while I don't see how that is bad at all. It's not as if he is cheating on you. At least he does something harmless when he is horny like watches porn rather than going out and looking for an actual woman to cheat on you with. Be thankful that he is faithful and doesn't stray when he needs some lovin and you're not around.
You should watch it with him and/or role play what is being viewed. Perfectly normal.
Everyone watches porn!!!! I'm sooo tired of this question. It has NOTHING to do with you or how sexy he finds you. Porn is so normal, that's why there's such a massive massive market for it.
Perfectly normal. U should watch it with him & see how much fun U guys will have. Join him, there's absolutely nothing wrong with it.
Do you have sex with him? Maybe hes just ''practicing'' (lol) or for the other reason that guys just need to jerk it once in a while!
It's sad this world has grown to accept this... I know many will argue me... But this is what I have to say... While he's watching porn, he's pleasuring over the thoughts of someone else... Of course, the men have done it so much it's become a "norm" even for women to accept... But I believe otherwise... Just my opinion though...
roxco assumes all men are like that im not like that i want to find love and then sex personality comes first obviously then looks
No it's normal. Guys have needs haha I wouldn't be worried as long a it doesn't interfere with ur sex life or ur relationship
Only a problem when you click on the link for the porn and he's starring in it.
Ok, maybe that's not so bad either.
^ and what's wrong with that?
I think most women would prefer sex every day than men
From the way you asked the question, you seem worried that by watching porn, he somehow loves you less or whatever. You should never feel this way.
Love and lust are two completely separate things and should never be assumed to go hand in hand. It's perfectly possible to have sex without feeling love and vice versa. Lust (and porn) is a very basic animal urge and you'll find that this is very normal even with happily married men.
When a guy doesn't get sex, it is healthy for him to regularly masturbate, but watch out for sex/masturbation addicts. And if he has to masturbate, porn's not bad company. In fact, you should watch it with him and tell him about stuff that turns you on (after he tells you what turns him on, of course), and maybe play some in the background while you do it. But the way your question is phrased make me think that you're still a virgin and don't know guys yet. All guys watch porn.
If a man has his woman right there in the house to fulfill his needs he shouldn't be watching porn.
I can understand if she isn't home enough (I guess). Us women still won't like the idea of our guy beating off to porn when we aren't around but there is no stopping them if they want to.
I say it's okay for the guy to watch porn but if it interferes in your sex life then you need to knock it off. Sex with your partner should be number one on your list before jacking off.
Also what's wrong with having your woman give you a hand job or bj in place of sex if that's not what ur up for? Me and my man do that. If he is horny I'm more than happy to help him out even if I can't get off that night.
Guys are horndogs, you alone cannot sustain his lust, if you tried you'd be having sex around the clock.
Of course it's normal!!! It's a guy thing!
For men huge difference between men and women when it comes to love and sex! Men can have sex multiple times with many other people or his hand and not be in love! Women relate sex to love usually and men rarely associate sex with love!
Of course it's normal. I understand how it might feel a bit like he's cheating on you but really it isn't. Maybe you should try watching it with him to involve yourself, so it will feel less like he's betraying you? But he will probably keep watching it if you're not there to watch it with him the next day. Its just a part of life, hun. Don't break up with him over something so small. unless it really bugs you too much.
Okay, I'm about done with women pretending they don't want sex as much as men do. I'm a perfectly normal female and I masturbate just as much as most men do. I find porn to be rather disgusting because it's fake and the girls are fake. But I'm a sucker for erotic stories and I'm pretty kinky. So women, I just wish we could all get over ourselves and admit everyone, not just men, get horny.
Don't feel bad most guys look at it. And it could be worse, like him finding his needs with actual human contact
its normal! lol ma gf was worried also but now we watch it together lol..
and how would you know that was porn sites .. i think you 2 watching that shit
I think its normal.I watch porn and my bf watches too.I dont see a problem there
Well Thanks for all the comments and advise guys, It's much appreciated.
80% of guys look at porn. The other 20% are lying.
It just happens when 1 person wants sex more often than the other pwrson If you don't want him to need porn then you'll have to have sex with him every time he feels the need too... frankly it is probably easier to tell him to watch some porn sometimes to give yourself a break. As long as he doesn't not have sex with you when you want to because he already watched porn.
There`s no need to be worried or have any bad thoughts on this. He`s a guy.... it`s totally normal. That`s just how we are... doesen`t make us bad or so... it`s just sometimes we need it, especially if the GF isn`t putting out :D
Lol, most guys would get to horny if the girl had to give it up every time he needed to bust a nut.
of COURSE it's normal! it doesnt necissarily mean you aren't doing enough for him. my advice is thus - watch porn with him. sit him in a chair infront of the TV, then sit on his lap (facing him) in your underwear, and just kind of writhe around. kiss him, strip for him, whatever, but let him watch the porn over your shoulder. it's good fun!!
regular masturbation is very good for you, in or out of a relationship. If he tosses off to porn, yes, as the others say, it will give him ideas to try with you, and it will also help him to know how to please himself/you. Just don't let it take priority over you. Confront him about it; you both might be uncomfortable at first, but if you treat it as a normal thing then the tension should go soon.