Is it normal that my boyfriend wants to have sex with me almost 24/7?

So basically I've been dating this one guy for awhile, and I've let him take my virginity and had sex a few times after that. That was a few months ago, and now I'm starting to see him ask me more and more to give him blowjobs/handjobs, have sex with him, do quikies when we get to see each other and when either of us are away on trips he asks a lot for nudes, teases, boob pics, pussy pics ect. Sometimes I will do that stuff, only because I'm worried that if I don't he'll find someone online or while on a trip and then start cheating on me.
Also, I don't "forbid" him from porn but I don't like him watching it because it gets him very arroused and then he wants to try things he's seen in porn, on me (anal, deepthroating, bondage, double/triple penetration), if I had not lost my virginity 5 months ago, I may be more open to trying these but I don't think he gets that I'm not comfortable doing anything more than what I have already done (oral sex, handjob/blowjob ect). So lately I've realized that he wants to do sexual things with me almost 24/7, for example we'll be at a hotel with a pool and he'll suggest we have sex underwater. And when I say no, and explain to him why in a nice boyfriend/girlfriend way he sulks about it for many days on end until I give in and do something with him.
So my question is, is it normal for my boyfriend (of 6 months) wants to have sex or do anything sexual with me almost 24/7

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51% Normal
Based on 65 votes (33 yes)
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  • mystery7

    It's normal for him to be horny but it doesn't mean he owns your genitals.

    You need to set boundaries with him about what's ok and what's not ok.

    From what you say it sounds like he's heavily into porn. Don't get me wrong I'm not against porn per se, but there's lot of studies that have shown that over time the porn saturated brain needs to view more and more extreme acts to get the same high.

    It can really mess with the brain's neural pathways and can even lead to impotence etc. (Google Pornography and Neuroplasticity Dr Norman Doidge).

    So don't be surprised if he tries to coerce you into more and more extreme sex , e.g. anal will lead to DP, which may lead to him wanting a 3some, then he might want to invite all his buddies over to join in etc

    If you ask me it sounds more like he's using you as a sex plaything by acting out with you what he sees on porn sites. Good luck.

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  • RoseIsabella

    He's a pile of steaming dog shit, dump him!

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  • Arm0se

    No. He's either using you, or he has some kind of condition (though it is most likely the former). Either way, not all guys are like that. Go find a better man who likes you for you, instead of just sticks around for the fucking.

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  • Aries

    When I am in love , I always want to have sex with my partner and make them feel good . I want them to feel my emotions . I think its normal .

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  • Lynxikat

    "Sometimes I will do that stuff, only because I'm worried that if I don't he'll find someone online or while on a trip and then start cheating on me."

    If you're at a point where you have to worry about your bf cheating on you, then you have to get out of that relationship.

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  • myspace84

    It's funny if a man was saying this...the comments would usually state something like "oh if you can't handle her send her my way" or "what a lucky guy I wish I had that problem!" Anyway back to the topic...as other posters said...you two are incompatible based upon sexual appetites and it can and does lead to other issues.

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  • JD777

    It doesn't seem his and your sex drives are compatible, especially if you are doing some of this out of insecurities of losing him. That's not good for you. On the other hand, seems normal/alright for the guy to initiate sex more and suggest more new thing sexually than his gf. I've been in relationships and know other couples who have all kinds of wild sex and sexting, especially in the first year, or so, of the relationship. But in those cases it was more of a mutual horniness of the couple.

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    • Asstastics

      Thanks for the reminder, boss. Been ten hours since my last jizz. Time for me to get stroking.

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  • Crusades|

    How the fuck is he still attracted to you after 6 months? As far as I'm concerned, I can't be attracted to a girl for more than a month. After that, she turns me on less than a dead slug and I have to throw her ass out and let the next one in.

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    • Ace9

      What? U're not married?

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  • (s)aint

    I can relate ... but I´m a bit like your boyfriend xD
    Difference is; I know what I want and I tell guys this right from the start, my BF is not always up for it as much as I am though.

    It sounds like you and your boyfriend does not match one another sexually. You just started with your sexually active life and want to take it slow and maybe you wont ever want to participate in the things he do.

    You could do like this; Ask him for anal ...but YOU want to penetrate him. Chances are he might say "fuck no" and then you will see that we dont HAVE TO participate in everything our partner asks of us.

    Has he ever said he would leave you?

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  • green_boogers

    You sound like a normal girl. If you suck and swallow, do hand jobs, and have sex doggy style, that's what most girls and boys like to do. Don't feel like something is wrong with you. Find a boy that has a heart and likes you for who you are.

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  • Fish1973m

    It's normal in a new relationship to want sex all the time and also if your young you'll want to be having sex all the time, I was a walking hard on when I was younger and still now love sex and the female body

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  • iamlegit

    Than again if he is like that its too much. You thinking that if you never do it he would do it on other. The fact that he already and will do on others when you are not around.

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  • Nokiot9

    If he is younger, and you are sexy, then yes it's normal. He is probably brimming with sex hormones and likes you a lot, so it's like a drug to him. He wants more and more and more. Just put a limit on him if it's getting too out of hand. Say, "you get one pussy pass per day. One bj/hj her day as well if you like" why don't you wanna fuck him all the time? Don't u like sex?

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  • ready2cum

    just keep sucking his cock a lot, do you swallow his cum?

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  • regisphilbin

    it seems like he doesn't respect you and is treating you as a sex object.

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  • LizardSkin

    You're a sex slave now, deal with it.

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  • orinoco

    No.

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  • flyingnostalgia

    HE IS USING YOU BIG TIME!

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  • CreativeThinker

    it seems you are sexually incompatible with him,

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  • goodatgiving

    I also like having sex 24/7 with my wife. And she is always willing as she desires sex like I do. She stays naked at all times and I love her being so as it turns us both on hence all sex

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