Is it normal that my boyfriend treats me like this?

So I started dating my boyfriend a few months ago. He wanted a relationship but it doesn't feel like a relationship to me. We never do anything like have sex anymore or go anywhere like to the movies or dinner, (if we do go out its to seedy places with his friends he takes me along even though i feel its not appropriate) he always talks about other girls like he says oh I wish she wanted to have sex with me or she's hot (referring both to actresses or people in real life) he barely wants to hang out that much, he never asks me to sleep over or anything. We only small talk cause I am so on edge when I'm with him like I don't want to do anything wrong. Also he isn't nice to me unless he is drunk... Like usually he doesn't show any emotion to me or say anything nice but I tell him nice stuff all the time (like he is so hot etc)....also he will say we are gonna hang out and I sit there waiting like all day and he will text me super late but he is always hanging out with his friends... Also he is super jealous if I have guy friends i get interrogated but he is allowed to have friends that are girls even talks about them in front of me. He even texted another girl in front of me. Now here is the weird part. I'm not full of myself or anything lol but i am very attractive and a lot of guys like me. He is the one who has had trouble getting girls in the past. I also go out of my way to be a good girlfriend... I don't even argue with him or show that his behavior upsets me. I mean we have a good time when we hang out and laugh and kiss and stuff. Sometimes he will be sweet but its rare. (At first he was wonderful and seemed great and respectful and was nice to me) We are both young adults btw...So my question is... Is it normal for boyfriends to treat their girlfriends like this? I just expected something much different out of a relationship like having fun, having sex, and not feeling uncomfortable and walking on eggshells all the time...

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Comments ( 10 )
  • casadilla17

    Speaking as a guy, dump his sorry butt. Don't date guys like that.

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  • chaosdragoon1

    Sounds like your regular jackass to me, lol.

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  • beastiessister

    Girl! just dump this sorry guys ass! seriously when was the last time he was EVER nice to you!?! You sound like a very nice girl and you are obiously WAY out of his league! YET he treats you like shit anyway! a bit of advise: dump him! he obsiously doesn't respect you and everyone deserves somone who does! he intorrogates you when you talk to a guy yet he has girls prticly queing at the door ready for him to 'sext' and talk too! just break up with him! he's obiously not worth your time!!!!

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  • bleach_baby

    dump him

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  • Cookies&Cream

    Make yourself a favor, get your dignity from the floor and start dating someone else (after you get over your actual "BF"...

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  • Sheisdelirium

    Drop his ass, he obviously doesn't care enough about you to make this relationship work. You can do some much better.

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  • chatter289

    This is what i think i has happened. He has gotten very very cocky now that he has you. Considering you said that he rarely gets girls and now that he is dating a beautiful girl he thinks he is god's gift and can act like it.

    Most young guys do this, but you want to know what you should do? GIVE HIM A TASTE OF HIS OWN MEDICINE. That means, you start acting exactly like he is. Not saying become a jackass like him, more of you giving him a taste of his own behaviour. He is in the 'comfortable zone' as i like to call it= he can act in any way because he knows you will stick by him and be the nice lil gf that you are.

    Show some backbone. You are beautiful and you sound like a very nice girl and you are taking this from him? FROM HIM? ha! See, once you demonstrate strength and character it will induce fear in him because then he will realize, 'hang on, why isn't she being the lovey dovey gf who is always quite'thats when reality will kick in and then he will change because then he will realize what he has and will be afraid to loose it which will trigger change. TRUST ME, IT DOES WORK, i did the same thing to my bf when he was being a bit of a prick and then... voila.. they realize how grateful they should be.
    BUT... if he does not end up changing then honestly, LEAVE HIM, because he is not even worth it!

    good luck! xxxx

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  • jorgaynigguh

    dump his bitch ass. you're hot

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  • jimmy12345678

    no its not normal he sounds like a douche bag. if you were my girl things would be WAY different all id want is you!!!

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  • WOWthatscool

    arent young adults like children...

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