Is it normal that my boyfriend thinks its hot im a virgin

im 18 years old and my boyfriend thinks its so hot that im a virgin. we have been dating for 3 months now.he's never been in a relationship with a girl who is a virgin. He thinks its so cute that i giggle every time he gives me hickeys. i personally don't like that im a virgin and i can't wait till he takes my virginity. i don't know why he thinks its so hot im a virgin? is this normal?

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  • hitlermatzoballs

    It's like when you have a pie and that pie is yours then you fuck the pie

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  • BoredGuy

    No STDs is a sure turn on.

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  • He's a vampire.

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  • CharlieHarris

    Who cares what he thinks? Is the gangbang still on for tonight?

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  • SHELLS<3

    haha thats exactly wat my boi friend thinks too ! ;) its all good:P

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  • jap*hime19

    Guys love to be the first for us girls, so yeah, it's normal!

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  • norm

    Like Captain James T Kirk said, every guy has a strong desire to "go where no man has gone before".

    If it's casual, he wants to be your first - period. To be the one to "take" your virginity.

    If it's serious, he is gonna want exclusivity, or as close to it as possible.

    I know, many guys will "say" it doesn't matter how many partners have had you before, but deep down inside no man wants a slut. He may respect you less later on in your relationship, and not even be consciously aware of why. Women are widely known for saying one thing, while meaning another - this is an instance of guys doing it too.

    I think the current divorce rate offers some support for my point.

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  • lalafuyuy

    i was a vergin with my boyfriend we waited a month then i had sex with him or other way around wink wink well things were good but after i didnt feel so special anymore because now i wasnt a vergin i was like everyone else i got pregnate had a baby then the other was on the way i dont regret my children one bit but wish i waited longer to be special just a little longer things happened way to fast all we do is fight and now we are not together and we are unhappy witch makes the kids unhappy so ya take ur time be special for aslong as u can people and men will respect u sooooo much more if u wait untill U are ready please

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  • nerdygurl

    yeah its okay im a virgin but i cnt wait to my bf takes it away and i cant stand wen he said i love virgin juice i jus feel real awkward

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  • Pisslan616

    I'm 18 and when I lose my virginity I want it to be with another virgin, cus if we both suck (and not in a good way) then we have no basis for comparison. We might even be able to delude ourselfs that it was somehow special.

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    • BigREDgrin

      But your learning curve is much better with someone who is even a little bit more experienced. Also for girls a guy that isnt all anxious to have sex for the first time is a lot less painful, a guy that knows what he is doing will make the situation a whole lot easier.

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  • Perfectly normal, ur boyfriend properly like the idea that he will be ur first time naturally in my school (the one I just left) all the popular girls lost there V and half the lads would ask, are u a virgin? and of course u couldn't lie in that situation and u just said yes and they would say that's hot??? Boys are a confusing race

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  • camelvba

    I would give ANYTHING If m girl was a virgin. I'm a virgin. And it matters a ton believe it or not

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  • luckynj

    Yes, it is normal and quite exciting too. Please share your experience once you lose your virginity-:)))

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  • catscrew

    yeah because he wants to bust you

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  • isaactaruma23

    im virgin.
    its like A New And Fresh Lemon Cake. no one ever bite it. everybody like to be the one that taste it first. its a sensation. keep your virginity.

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  • Synterra

    Basic male fantasy is to be the only one his girl has ever been with. Gives that extra confidence too. Unless he is so useless that he hurts you more than the basic discomfort from breaking the hymen. He won't even wonder if you have had better or anything like that. Also a virgin at 18 is a rare thing generally it does make you special just by default the more rare something is the more special it is in general. Like blonde hair and blue eyes.

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  • volvonut84

    Well...I won't tell him any different if you don't...same time tonight, right?

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  • CharlieHarris

    Only if he'd rather masturbate than play around wiht you. No, it's not normal...

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  • shuggy-chan

    Idk i can get why its a turn on, but when ppl make a big deal about a girl (or guys) virginity it seems a little sleezy or creepy to me. idk, maybe it is o by-product of only losing mine at 21, and it sucking cause i didn't really like her. but thats another issue. =P hahaha

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    • mate dnt worry i didnt like the girl i lost mine with either but i felt like i had to do it because all my friends were i wasnt even dating the girl i did it with

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  • shmee

    Trust me, he's happy cause he'll break through your tight pussy! Feels better for guys

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  • Appleflesh

    You should wait tho. losing your virginity ain't exactly awesome. lots of stories of regrets. Today society so quick to have sex. Imagine losing it on your honeymoon in Aruba, or the Keys.. He's excited cause he has heard from his friends that virgin pussy is the best, so tight you will have sex for a year after and then he might break up with you, and what did you get.. I've had two virgins and they both pretty much hate me. its not a good feeling. wish I had one girl one wife with the tight virgin pussy. all you need.

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  • JazmineH

    Sorry if this makes you feel uncomfortable...but he probably thinks it's hot bcuz he knows you'll be tight when you guys have sex and its not a bad thing. He's just excited and many people thinj that this is hot bcuz they r going to be the one that takes you virginity and maybe they feel lucky

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  • colorfulcutie(:

    ^ agree, my boyfriend told me that guys like to be girls first!

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  • jamiee

    he probally doesn't want you to feel bad for being a virgin, or he likes the fact that your not a whore and haven't been around.
    but i don't see how thats sexy..

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  • EternalHate

    I would rather an expirianced guy who know's what he is doing.
    it'll hurt less then some floundering noob.
    at least 1 of us will know what we are doing.
    so yeeeah expiriance for the win.

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  • SweetSherry

    Sex is awesome gonna have sex right now lol

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  • Fadina

    my ex boyfriend loved that he was and still am myf first XD

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  • yeah its hot when girls are virgins makes the bloke feel more in charge etc etc and makes it tighter cleaner and i recon twice as fun :P

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