Is it normal that my boyfriend tells on me to his mum?

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hi, first time posting.
is it normal that everytime i fall out with my boyfriend he rings/text his mum and basically tells on me to her? i need to add my bf dad is dead and was very abusive when alive to my partner his siblings and mother so i know this is why he is so attached to her. his mum is an angel she is an amazing women after everything she has been through in life has come out to be such a beautiful soul, i do respect her opinions and the advice she gives me and she knows what my partner is like so doesnt take sides but to him she makes out like she has taken his side. my boyfriend has mental health disorders and is a very big meme. id like to blame his behaviour completely all on his mental health but he is a pr**k and it all cant be blamed on his certain issue. anyway i am getting really annoyed by his constant mum telling its so pathetic and such a turn off ive asked him to stop but he carrys on, we split up he gets his mum to ring or text asking me to go back. i am at the end of my tether with him i love him so much but im sick of feeling like a child. im an adult!!

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  • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
    4 years ago | pl

    Yall must be very young. You should go after winners. He sounds like a loser. Try to find a boyfriend thats going places. You dont want to be stuck in a trailer park with a man thats on welfare and says yalls shitty life isnt his fault. Try to find a good man.

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago

    He, and his mom probably both have PTSD. You're going to have you hands full with this dude. What kinda stuff triggers him to snitch on you to his mom?

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  • Doesnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    You at trying to be too nice! Find someone who descent rely on his mom for relationships and deosnt have mental health issues. Seriously, you can definently find someone better. It's sounds to me like you feel obligated to be with him because of his mother which is both short sighted and shows lack of self confidence. You need to be decisive and get out of this relationship.

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  • CDmale4fem
    4 years ago

    I read about the first 5-6 lines and I tell big-time he's a mama's boy, he wants to get to her first so that if she hears anything from you or someone else he has already laid blame on you. He's trying to cover his ass. So his mom won't see you somewhere and get your side of the story first. See where I'm going withthis.? He's a mama's boy. And when you if you stay without will be you or whoever that takes over hearing him cry about stupid shit because her And figure them out for himself. Sorry I'm so blunt, but that's just MHO.

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  • AveSatanas
    4 years ago

    LOL DAT UNFORTUNATE

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  • SKDM007
    4 years ago

    "mummyyy my girlfrwends beingg a bitch!"

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  • SwickDinging
    4 years ago

    Why are you with someone who you know is a prick?

    Whenever I've been in a relationship with a prick it was because I was too blind to notice, and when I did finally notice that was the day I left.

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  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago

    I hate people like that

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  • mauzi
    4 years ago

    cute, i would date his mom

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  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago

    One of my ex’s was kinda like that not as bad but still weirded the fuck out of me. Like I get it my mom and I are close and tell each other a lot but when my boyfriend and I fight or some shit I don’t run whining to her and ask advice I keep it to myself.

    My ex’s mom used to text me a lot and talk about our arguments and when we broke up she tried to call me like no I broke up with you too fuck outta here.
    It was very weird like I’d rather be in a relationship closed to the point family isn’t involved like let’s get through this together without running to family reunions in damn courts. It’s a fucking turn off like don’t go spread my shit.

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