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when we make out he likes to suck on my lips, it hurts and then I get this weird discoloration on my lips (like a hickey). How do I tell him I don't like it? :o
Sounds to me that he acts like a bathroom cleaner sucking your lips next time he will be sucking your pussy in.
Very normal for that sort of thing, but if it hurts or you dont like it then tell him. Sex and mostly relationships is about communication. If you did something, like bite his cock while giving him a blow job, he'll tell you, this is no different.
If it hurts, he's doing it too hard or for too long. A little suck and a nibble is nice but he sounds like he's sucking your face off. You need to tell him to ease off.
My bf likes to do this too and at first I didn't really like it. It felt like he was trying to chew my lips off. But in a way now it turns me on more and I really like it. Maybe just tell him that when he does that he needs to not do it so hard because leaving a hickey or something on ur lip is not good and he is doing it too hard. So I would just be like, "Babe I love when we kiss/makeout and sometimes when we do you suck on/bite my lip and it hurts and leaves a mark. I don't like this but I do enjoy kissing you. Could you maybe lay off on it for a while or just not do it so hard?" He might not even know he is doing it that hard so I would just say what I previously said and see what he says and let him try again. Or you can show him and do it on him. That is fun too. Hope this helps. :)
tell him you like it more when you do it like this. and kiss him the way you want to be kissed back.
Tell him to be gentler, that's all. Lip sucking feels amazing if done right.
Just be like "damn look at that mark you left on my face! What am I gonna tell my mom (or my boss or someone)?" and then from then on he'll know to chill out. If it happens again just be like "my mom freaked out when she saw the last one. You gotta stop doing that."
I do that too,though not to that extreeme. I suck too hard all the time on my gf. She always complains and I stop. I do it all over her body, and when I bite/suck too hard she complains,and I stop.
just tell him! we r men we respond to directiveness! lol....and i do think its normal, my ex and i did that too but it was more playful than anything :)
It's kind of a yes and no. I always loved a bite on the lip and a little suck on it is fine. But your bf is causing hickey's just tell him to tone it down.
My boyfriend and I do the same thing, except it should definitely not leave a mark! When we first started including that in our make outs, he sucked a little hard and rough too, no where leaving a lip hickey, but it did hurt a little. Just mention it softy. Try and tell him to try that much, much softer. I would try that first, and if you really don't like it at all, even soft, just let him know. You really should give it it's fair chance though, when done gently enough it's amazing.