Is it normal that my boyfriend stopped me mid-blowjob?

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Boyfriend and I were getting intimate. He ate me out, we snuggled, and because he was hard, I wanted to return the favor. I start to give him head, and eventually he asks me to stop, and says, "I'll want to fuck you if you keep going" and "you are about to flip my switch and that wouldn't be good".
I'm a virgin (not ready for PiV sex, which he respects) and new to giving BJs, though I have made him cum before. Could it be I was doing it badly (teeth by accident)? Or was I really about to "flip his switch"?

EDIT: I asked and he said he knew it was going to take a minute for him to cum (which he said is great for sex), and didn't want to discourage me as a newbie...

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Comments ( 9 )
  • TerriAngel
    5 years ago

    Suck that dick like you are 300' down in the water.
    And that dick is your only source of air.
    He shouldn't be able to push you off or stop you.
    You stop,,
    You gonna drown.
    That said,
    Bust that man off a piece.
    Virginity is NO virtue.

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    • EnglishLad
      5 years ago

      Excellent comment!

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  • JonathanOo
    5 years ago

    He was being honest. That's a good thing and showing respect towards you on what he felt it would lead to

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  • Boojum
    5 years ago

    I wasn't there, and I don't know him, so it hard to be sure, but I assume that when he said you were about to "flip his switch", he meant that he was about to come in your mouth. But it could have meant that it was getting difficult to control the urge to fuck you.

    Why are you asking a bunch of random internet people this question? You know the guy, you know what was going on, and you know how he said it, so you should be able to figure it out.

    Kudos to him for having self-control and actually talking to you about what he was feeling. Lots of guys would have just grabbed your head and come in your mouth. Assuming he's a good guy in other ways and you two get along well out of bed, it sounds like he might be a keeper.

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    • nikkiclaire
      5 years ago

      "grabbed your head and come in your mouth."

      Damn I miss that 😂😂

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      • Maid_in_Pink
        5 years ago

        I always liked it when they would grab my hair and pull my head in.

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  • mm6969
    5 years ago

    I don't know a man that would stop a blowjob unless it was painful. Tell him that you want to improve your BJ skills. Ask for guidance. Remember to breath while you are doing it. Otherwise you will need to constantly stop every few minutes. He will never climax. Also at least be topless. Cup his balls with your free hand. Even give a squeeze.let him be on top. Fucking your mouth as you lay on a pillow. That feels much more like vagina sex. Anal sex is also an option.

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    • Maid_in_Pink
      5 years ago

      Yeah a lot of girls overlook anal sex as an option to keep their vagina pristine.

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  • IrishPotato
    5 years ago

    ...ask him.

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