Is it normal that my boyfriend still talks to and hangs out with his e

I have been with my boyfriend for a few months. Most of his friends are girls, it's just how he's always been, and I have no problem with that. It's not like he constantly is hanging out with them anyways, although he does talk to them a lot. I know there is nothing up with them though, they're cool people. There's one girl though, that he dated before me. They say they are best friends, and I use to be friends with her but we grew apart (nothing to do with him though). They hang out sometimes, usually once a week or once every two weeks, and I hate it! I don't know if it's normal for him to be good friends with her still, and I don't really say anything about it because I don't want to be over controlling. I really don't suspect anything between them because she seems happy for us and she has a boyfriend. I just wonder if it is normal for him to be good friends with her and if it is normal for me to hate it.

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Based on 29 votes (17 yes)
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  • Blakeandersonshair

    Theres so many extenuating factors there.
    It depends on how old you two are.
    The seriosuness of theyre and your relationship, mostly on his side.

    Honestly,
    I wouldnt be okay with that and jut recently dealt with it. I feel like this, i you have fucked that person, it just makes the situation awkward. And in my situation, the ex wasnt worth the drama because i LOVE the person i am with.

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  • Satchmo

    Exactly all these people that are saying its normal are probably the same way they think it's fine to hang out with their own exes but would hate it if their partner did

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    • Yeah that kinda makes sense. Like I am friends with a couple of my exes, but I only really hang out with them when it's a group, or when I was single!

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  • Satchmo

    Bs why don't you start hanging out with one of your ex boyfriends and see how he feels about it

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    • He probably would hate it because every time any of them come up in conversation he calls them an asshole or something lol

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  • Ramit10

    Im still friends with my ex's even after what they did to me cause im mature and know im better off. I just treat them like they are one of my normal friends and nothing else.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    Don't worry about it.
    I talk to and hang out with my exes all of the time. Some people make better friends than romantic partners, just be happy that your boyfriend was smart enough to realize that.

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