Is it normal that my boyfriend says so? what can i do?

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My boyfriend is calling me a whore and insulting me all the time,and yesterday he told me that he misses his ex and he still loves her but they can never get back together because he thinks she's too good for him,,he told me that he doesnt want me and that he compares me to his ex all the time and thinks im a total asshole,i love him so much although he hurts me on purpose,i just want him to miss me and stop taking me for granted and hurting me that much

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Based on 75 votes (7 yes)
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  • Fall_leaves
    9 years ago | pl

    Dump him, he's an asshole.

    He's not going to change.

    Have some self respect.

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    • mountain-man82
      9 years ago

      This.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    The sooner you accept that you're powerless over the thoughts, feelings and actions of this human turd you call your boyfriend the sooner you will start to live a healthier existence.

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  • iEatZombies_
    9 years ago

    You will never get the love you seek from him. He doesn't love you. He's bitter and selfish. He'll say whatever he needs to to keep his human pincushion around and then he'll hurt you again because he knows you'll let him. The only thing he'll miss about you if you leave is how powerful he felt when he hurt you.
    Leave him now and let yourself have some power over him.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    The question you need to ask is what the hell is wrong with you.

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  • KeddersPrincess
    9 years ago

    Man! If only you were capable of breaking up with him. Oh, wait a minute.

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  • TrustMeImLying
    9 years ago

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    Take the hint

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  • ygrowup
    9 years ago

    So sorry your in love with someone that does not appreciate your love. Most likely you will not take any advice, but you should run as fast as you can from this relationship and find someone that cares for someone special like yourself

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    Sounds like he has you wrapped around his little finger. It also sounds like he is either not in love with u or trying to mentally break you. Get rid of him. A guy like that doesn't deserve you. I know you love him, but there is someone way better for u out there. Someone who won't treat u like shit. He sounds like he has ex issues and he got with u before he had them all solved and in redirecting his anger and frustration toward you. Still... doesn't excuse saying things like that. Those words were sharp like knives. He was trying to hurt you

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    What a loser you will be if you don't walk right out that door with your head held high, and never, ever talk to that asshole again. And I don't mean next week. Do it now. You couldn't possibly love a creature like that, you are just afraid of being alone. Well, hear this; this is a thousand times worse than being alone. Never, ever let a human being treat you like that. NEVER! Be strong and brave, and proud. Get away from this cretin.

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  • wistfulmaiden
    9 years ago

    jeez, punch him in the balls and leave him.

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  • associate
    9 years ago

    Don't blame yourself. This guy is abusive. There'll be much, much better people out there. Look after yourself.

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  • davesumba
    9 years ago

    lol

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  • pixie_dust
    9 years ago

    you made this post, now are you going to listen to what 100% of people have said so far? I'd say go to a battered womens shelter (even if no PHYSICAL abuse) but the psychology of this is really horrible and in my opinion just as bad if not worse. Look up Bradley Angle house and talk to someone! NOW

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