Is it normal that my boyfriend says..

Is it normal that my boyfriend says he's going to kill himself if I'm pregnant? Whenever he acts that way I feel like he doesn't care about his future and the people around him. Why end your life over something like that? You can't always run away from your problems, It would be a stupid thing to do..he would be hurting his friends and family the most. Does this mean he doesn't care about what could happen to me?

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Based on 124 votes (22 yes)
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Comments ( 16 )
  • Mando

    It sounds like emotional blackmail (if this, then that and you'll all feel terrible). Of course tell him to talk to his doctor or a distress centre if you suspect he's suicidal. And consider ditching his drama and him.

    I hope you aren't pregnant not because he'd follow through but that you'd be tied to someone you'd be better off without.

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  • thinkingaboutit

    he's a pussy.

    you should not be giving him yours.

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  • penpal21

    Wow...he's a keeper, huh?

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  • VioletTrees

    That's emotionally abusive.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    I have to go with Mando on this.
    He is playing emotional blackmail with you, kind of like "I'll kill myself if you leave me". If he is truly suicidal, he needs to get help but this guy sounds like a damned fool to me and I hope that you can get a hold of a pregnancy test ASAP so you can test NEGATIVE. I would have to see another women have to carry a child and deal with one too. For your sake, I hope he doesn't father any of your children and if it turns out that you're not pregnant, leave him.

    No man that cares about you would put you through that and shame you for carrying something he helped to create.

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  • GuessWho

    I'm getting sick of all these people that just want to fuck and not take responsibility for their actions. They are the worst!

    If people only fucked those that they are willing to reproduce with, there wouldn't be problems like this because they'd be able to welcome the child happily when it comes, like good parents should.

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  • jethro

    Just tell him "Bye Felicia". You don't need his shit.

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  • Foreverdecay

    People will do or say anything to get out of the responsiblities they arent ready for. Some people are assholes like that. But yeah, you should leave him. He doesnt really care about you lol

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  • Iloveyou727

    He might be emotional abusive i hope you are ok! Seek help if necessary

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  • Lucyg123swag

    Dump him
    Oh and
    Sucide is a temporary solution to a short term problem

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  • noemimi93

    Thanks for the feedback guys..

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  • Captain_Kegstand

    It actually makes me a little sick to my stomach that somebody that is capable of that kind of "emotional terrorism" is even allowed the privilege of dating you in the first place.

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt

    That is horrible.
    His mental health may need a check over because that is not a thing a normal person would say.

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  • Energy

    Your boyfriend disgusts me.

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  • ILoveJoshHutcherson

    NOT NORMAL
    And if it is normal
    IT'S BAD
    You do NOT i repeat NOT want to have a relationship with someone who will KILL THEMSELVES if you are pregnant! That would be TERRIBLE for you, him, his family, the baby, his friends it would be SO BAD you shouldn't want to date someone who would KILL themselves if you are going to have a baby
    I'm sorry but it seems like he doesn't love you enough to help you through if you get pregnant

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  • Darkoil

    Strange way of thinking, wouldn't it be easier to kick you in the stomach and kill the unwanted baby?

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