Is it normal that my boyfriend's penis was too big for sex?

I'm really ashamed and embarrassed right now. I've masturbated with hairbrush handles before (I'm too cheap/lazy to buy a dildo, lol) with no problems, but the other day I tried to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time, but his cock was too big around to fit into my vag. He was only able to get it barely in there, but it hurt really bad and continued to hurt afterwards. He was cool about it and felt bad for hurting me, even though it wasn't his fault. This just really sucks, cause I don't know if we'll ever be able to have sex. This could ruin our relationship.
Is it normal that a) it didn't fit and b) the pain afterwards?

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  • downtownlickin47

    If you never had a guy yes
    An the fact that he is big isnt yours or his fault.you are blessed that he is gentle.dont do the finger bit.just let him put it in an stay still.each time a little more.an when its all the way in still just sit there both not moving.slowly letting you shape around him.carefull after he allthe way in a few times move slow an easy.gently alow you to shape to fit.sounds like he ok with this an it will make you relationship really stronge.you got very lucky to find him so remimber that both of you.for you a perfit fit for him no woman will ever feel as good.becus you his perfit fit.long as he takes his time he has every mans dream custum fit pussy!!!

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  • kla631

    First I want to say YUMMY to your bf's cock. Ok that out of the way. You need to relax when he inserts it. There are exercises you and he can do, like fingers, one, then two then so on until you can get all five in.

    But first and foremost you just need to relax and let him first put in slowly until there is no pain. USE LOTS OF LUBE.

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    • walkingdildo

      Yummy? Have you seen it? Or tasted it?

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  • downtownlickin47

    Total off subject.the ones that come on a page like this an do this seem to do it on all pages.it is proof their minds are very small.an cant join in so the disrurpt.

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  • walkingdildo

    Your vagina is designed to be able to expand sufficiently to give birth to a fully functioning human. It can take an above average penis. It just takes work. My wife's is naturally "smaller" than my penis, so I can give advice from the other side.

    As gross as this sounds coming from a stranger, you need to make sure you are very wet beforehand. Engage in foreplay, especially with him giving you oral.

    Enter with just the head at first, allow him to go back and forth, in and out, but only the head. Slowly. Gradually allow an inch at a time, continuously going back and forth as this allows your natural lubrication to be used as much as possible on him. Eventually, you will be able to take the whole thing. If you can take a hairbrush handle, you can take his penis. Even if he is literally hung like a horse. It just takes "training".

    If you are concerned about your vagina "loosening" and become too accommodating to his larger-than-expected penis, which can result in reduced sensitivity for you, then tense and release your pelvic muscles after sex. This can help return them to normal. This is an exercise often practised after giving birth.

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    • downtownlickin47

      Very real advise.nice when folks are adult acting an use the site the way it was ment to be.

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      • walkingdildo

        Appreciated.

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  • downtownlickin47

    Childish crap...onward with the piont of the site.subject an comment...brain dead bull hocky not withstanding.....rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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