Is it normal that my boyfriend's facebook says "single"?

My boyfriend of almost 2 months won't change his facebook status away from single!

I asked him within 2 weeks of dating to delete the single. and he said that he would... He never did!!! i keep on mentioning if we should be 'facebook official' and he agrees but never makes the first move for it. And yesterday i asked him seriously to change it from single, and he said he would right when he got home. 24 hours later, its still single!!!!??!!?!? I know its just facebook and its stupid, but this is really annoying. Could he possibly be cheating and do i have the right to be mad?

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Comments ( 26 )
  • msapril2u

    Put single on your Facebook... See how he likes it...

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  • jczb

    If he doesn't change it after you have asked to several times. Then I would say he doesn't take you or your relationship seriously. I think he is just using you and keeping his options open hoping someone else will come along. So I would dump his sorry butt. I know it's just Facebook but that's not the point.

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  • 8Serene8

    It's true it's just Facebook but I'd be pretty pissed if my man left it saying single based on the fact that any other women he may come in contact with online will think he is single

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  • Ryan556

    He dosent give a shit bought Facebook mine says single and I've been dating for 2years I don't care she keeps telling me to change it I just told her to and gave her my info cause I didn't care cause between going on dates work and school I don't relly have the time to even pleasure her total fucking crap he probably dosent have fucking time

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  • InsertBlankHere

    Omg. You've got a problem when you get upset over something silly like this. Stop worrying about it, and stop being so pushy. If your relationship is going well enough, why mess with it over something so trivial?
    If some girl I was dating started pestering me about this, I'd tell her to STFU and come back to reality. Quit being so insecure.

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  • Sweetz

    Not everyone on facebook gotta know about your personal life. Like really....facebook??? Too many nosy ppl on there

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  • idk..

    Who gives a crap it's only Facebook..

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  • IllHelpYaBrah

    He probably doesn't feel like changing it. Maybe he doesn't want it to facebook official. He could just want it to be more private.

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  • scotty77

    If he cared about how it makes you feel he would change it and would have done so a long time ago!! Change yours to single!!

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  • Mel

    I agree w the 2nd post, change yours to single & if he bitches about it...tell him you'll change it when HE does :)

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  • alv1592

    ask him again why he hasn't changed it. maybe he forgot or he's just too lazy. or he doesn't feel the same way about you as you do about him. if that's the case, maybe y'all should break up.

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  • moomus

    I just went through exactly the same thing! It's sorted now, we are now a couple on there but it concerned me cuz my ex was playing about with women on Facebook, only thing is he bigged me up on there so I wouldn't guess! I think you have a right to be pissed off, if he's happy with you then he should tell the whole world !!!

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  • aussiewolf

    well he probably doesnt take the relationship as serious as you do which is understandable after only 2 months. you do realise that you are probably pushing him away by reacting like this and freaking out over something so little.... im sure you will grow out of it though.

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  • Jupiter

    I like the idea of publicly posting something obviously only a girlfriend would post. Find out his reaction.

    If he's not changing it, he's using facebook as a hookup spot, even if it for just "online" shit, which is still cheating in my opinion

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  • emari

    My thought is that this is a test to see how secure or insecure you are. If you were confident, you wouldn't worry about it, because if he's a player, losing a good woman like you would be his loss. It's only been a couple of months and you're already acting like you have to own him. Bad sign of insecurity! Try to relax and just enjoy spending time with him till you get to know each other better. Don't treat him like he's been captured. Even men who want a monogamous, loving relationship don't want to feel like they're being told what to do.

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  • kajien

    He doesn't want the other girls he is talking to or possibly fooling around with know he has a girlfriend..

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  • GothBabe

    I am in agreeance with either posting girlfriendy things, like tagging him in a cute coupley pic of you two. Or changing ur status to single too. Or do both and see which he bitches about more, then you'll have ur answer.

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  • Tell him: "I deserve better" and walk away :)

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  • DanielleR34

    I like the idea of changing yours

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  • cpetz27

    I feel like it'd bother me too, but at the same time it is facebook. It shouldn't be that big of a deal. Just talk to him about it and tell him how you feel and if he really cares about you he'll change it.

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  • jenvin55

    I've learned to look at a persons actions if you want to see the truth. Then again 2 weeks might be kind of soon. I say be cautious.

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  • KeyboardSolo

    You could try posting things on his wall that make it obvious you two are a couple. If he really is staying "Single" in an effort to keep picking up girls he might have a certain reaction to that kind of thing.

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  • ElectricGhost

    I wouldn't think soo but idk it's my opinion

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  • 8Serene8

    I agree with Jupiter 100% just because a guy is talking to a girl online and that's it, it's still considered cheating

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  • pathoftheuncertian

    Dude.. Seriously? This is why so many good guys and girls get turned away. You should just leave it. For reals. It's a website. No one should even have a stupid facebook, if you want to talk to a freind, there is such thong as a phone

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    • timebobbu

      lol, u said thong

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