Is it normal that my boyfriend's ex still has pictures of them?

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So I started dating this guy 5 mos ago and there was a time that we broke it off for a couple weeks and then when we got back together, we just kept it quiet for about a month. His ex had broken up with him 8 mos prior but during this time period of our secret relationship, she texted him and wanted to meet up with him, as well as she blew up his Facebook. Well it came out finally that we were back together and she stopped. This issue that I have is this. We all go to the same church and all hang out with the same group of friends. I didn't know here previously to dating him, but we all have a ton of friends in common. My issue is that she still has pictures on her Facebook of them together. I just want to know if I am being CrAzY for thinking it's completely disrespectful. I don't want to take anything away from their relationship, and it's not that I don't like her as a person, she's just hasn't been respectful towards our relationship. It's frustrating.

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  • GnR66627
    12 years ago

    I had a similar issue but I just told myself, it's a part of the past, it does not mean she still has feelings for him. Just because two people could not work out in a relationship, that doesn't mean they can't be friends or have good memories together. As long as they aren't pictures of anything intimate it seems fine. :-)

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  • InsertBlankHere
    12 years ago

    You are being crazy. Should she erase those pictures because they're no longer together? That was a part of her life, and those are her memories. For you to want her to forget about them is ludicrous.

    ...and who gives a shit if she DOES still have feelings for him? You've got him right now, she doesn't. Isn't that what's important? It sounds like you're about to start a cat fight out of NOTHING.

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