Is it normal that my boyfriend rejects me sexually

He's probably frustrated because what his body is telling him goes against his beliefs, and he gets even more frustrated when he fails to maintain self-control. His body is telling him that he wants sex (because he gets an erection, it feels good to him when you touch him), but his conscious mind is trying to convince him that he doesn't (because it goes against his religious beliefs).

He takes his frustration out on you by getting angry, which is wrong of him. Part of him likes being seduced by you - who doesn't like sexual attention from their partner? - but part of him wishes you wouldn't tempt him because he also wants to wait. Perhaps he feels disgusted that he can't control himself completely when you do tempt him, and he takes that out on you even more.

You, on the other hand, are confused by the mixed signals from him. Half the time he loves the sexual attention he gets from you, and half the time he gets angry with you for being sexual. There's nothing wrong with giving sexual attention to someone you love. It's natural and healthy to desire that dimension to your relationship.

What he wants deep down is for you not to tempt him so much. Of course, that is understandably very difficult for you because holding back from your partner never really feels natural. It's difficult for him as well, because what he wants doesn't make sense to his body.

I think his behaviour is normal for someone in his position, but I see why it's difficult to understand. Try to be as understanding as you can, and hopefully he'll respond by understanding how difficult it is for you.

I think it's great that you feel you're ready to get married. I'm the same age as you and I think it would be great I had someone like that. Make sure you don't rush into it just so you can start having sex, though.

Your boyfriend has issues and shouldn't be blaming you for them. Have an open, frank discussion with him or find a Christian guy with less emotional baggage who appreciates your attention.

He lets you jerk him off but you failed to mention if he returns the favor. Does he just leave you sexually frustrated? Kind of selfish and fucked up. What kind of asshole lets his girlfriend give him a handjob then bitches about it later? He needs to grow up.

If you really love him, please respect his believes.

"i respect his choice but its just stupid"

I think it is sort of messed up that he gets angry at you after every sexual thing you do that he willingly participates in. Honestly I mean it's not like you're controlling him, I think you guys should probably talk about that. Cause I get the feeling that he's always going to be angry at you after you guys go beyond kissing.

I dont get how you fail to see how a false religion is negatively affecting your lives. Dump jesus and go have sex with somebody while you're still young. Jeez.

The way I see it you have two choices. One, you can respect his wishes and wait until you're married for sex. Or two, you can leave your boyfriend and find someone else who won't make you wait.

Sorry, but according to Christian standards the handjob was already a breach of the rules.

Angry masturbation has gotta be better than sad masturbation. As he gets mad just keep jerking him off until he can't contain his load. Then let his volcano erupt all over your face and then ask him if he still wants to wait.

.. Just sayin'

Your 18 years old go out and party and get laid.

You gotta be a little more subtle about it...

If you really want him to do what you want, tease him to the point he can't think straight anymore. You don't really need to touch his salami to do it. There are other very sensitive spots you can toy with.

Guys have a stage where they cease to reason. The line's very blurred. At that point, he'd rob a bank if you asked him to... let alone, having sex with you on his own whims.

When you're done, all you'll need to do is sit back and enjoy the fireworks.

Once knows how good the cookie is, not even an angel will keep him away... Which might be a problem soon enough too...

I think he should go take a shower and jack it. (I know, this post is 3 yrs old.

I powersharted

And once again it is religion, that stands in the way of happiness.