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My boyfriend laid down next to me and I started doing his #1 turn on, and he told me to stop. WTF. Then he rolled over and his excuse was he was too tired from work. Obviously I'm totally annoyed. Is it normal that he would refuse to have sex with me??
Just because he is a male, you think he needs to have a 24/7 sex drive? Really? Women are often treated like a sex toy and you think a way to change that is to turn around and treat your guy like a penis rather than a person? Yes, it is completely normal. Get a grip.
Even when I don't want sex I have it anyways. I have some kind of inability to turn it down.
Sure. I get home and tell my partner "I'm shattered and I'm going to bed." An entirely different scenario than the one described here. He says nothing until she initiates sex, TELLS (not 'asks') her to stop then turns his back before delivering the rest of his excuse. That's pretty revealing body lingo/behaviour IMO,, an opinion based on the OP. By all means disagree with it,, it'd be a boring world without diverse opinions.
You've unwittingly answered your own enquiry, Dom. NOWHERE do I state that it's wrong to not want sex. What's wrong is that rather than say he doesn't want sex he uses the excuse that he's too tired. If you want to believe that go ahead. I don't and suspect time will prove me right. Having sex with a partner you're committed to is easy when you're tired. If you don't feel like making the effort, it's for another reason.
Suggesting she leaves (or threatens to) because her b/f is likely being less than honest hardly makes me an advocate of rape. As for trolling, you're the one failing to respond to the OP, or even suggesting a wiser alternative to the reply you're critising. I suggest you retake comprehension class.
Yea, my partner does it all the time. It's not like he's the only person in the world that works! Like I did, you might have to get acquainted with some sex toys. Thank jeebus for fleshlights!
Just shows how peoples' priorities get skewed. They're NEVER "too tired" to do whatever shit at work yet, the moment they get home they suddenly lack energy to invest in those they profess to love. Funny how it's seldom the case at the beginning of the relationship. I'd tell your b/f to go get his #1 turn-on from his boss since that's where his committment lies and that you're moving out. See if that wakes the fucker up. If you let yourself be taken for granted, you will be.
You're joking, right? Please for the love of god tell me you're trolling. Or do you just think that being in a relationship means you're not allowed to say no? Way to endeavor to undo all that progressive work people have achieved of making spousal rape illegal.
So towards the end of your work day you have never struggled to keep your eyes open, felt like dropping everything and gong home to sleep? No one has?